Death is part of human existence. It is even in our soul contract as we are here on earth; people die through different means. Just today, I was reading the newsheadlines and I watched a video of two adults in Kenya who were tied” or “locked” into each other. It is a long story but the summary is that the two adults were having sex in Airbnb apartment they have rented and it happened: the man was stuck inside the woman. The Airbnb attendant tried but could not; they have to call police officials who came to the rescues of these two adults and carried them off to the hospital.
There are many beliefs surrounding this kind of situations. It has happened in Nigeria here and other parts of Africa; according to how I heard it and according to people who have actually witnessed it happened to other people: it is believed that a wife or husband can use juju to make a cheating partner to be locked during sex with another person. They say it is a way of finding out if your wife or husband is cheating on you.
Another thing I would like to clarify is that: sex is an integral and natural part of human existence. Apart from being tied during sexual intercourse, many people have lost their lives during sexual activities. Many people often use aphrodisiacs just to ensure they have maximum sexual pleasures. I am not against using aphrodisiacs. Anything you do with your body is your personal business. You decided where you put your body and who you share it with.
When I was in college, news came to our hostel that a boy who wanted to have a MAXIMUM sexual pleasure met with a friend of his and then this friend gave him a substance to drink to maintain a LONGLASTING erection! So this guy took this aphrodisiac; even after the sexual activities his penis did not go down. According the story the boy was rushed to the hospital where doctors have to work on him to restore his erection into normalcy. I have also read a story in the magazine of two students in the university who died during sexual intercourse. How people came to know about their death: after noticing their absence from school and in the hostel; that is when they decided to knock on the door of the boy and no response was coming. The friends and neighbours also called his number but it was not been answered. After some hours they decided to break the door. It was when they broke the door that they saw the dead body of the boy and his girlfriend alongside other aphrodisiacs in the room.
One neighbour who always complained about her concubine not been able to satisfy her sexually because she has a high libido learned the hard way. After complaining to the man that he was not satisfying her; the man had to take an aphrodisiac and visited her. That day, hell was let loose—it was neighbours who came to the rescue of the woman; broke the door open and pulled out the man. The woman was actually hospitalized.
Last weekend in Abuja, a 31-year-old man died in a hotel room with a sex worker. It happened in Gwagwalada, Abuja. A man identified as Ajayi Nicholas slumped and died inside a sex worker’s hotel room at New Kutunku community in Gwagwalada Area Council of the FCT.
A resident of New Kutunku, Josiah Gabriel, told DAILY TRUST on Tuesday that the incident happened at the weekend around 5pm when the deceased checked into a hotel room in the area. He said the 31-year-old man slumped when he was about to leave the room and the woman rushed to alert the manager of the hotel. However, the hotel manager identified the deceased and rushed to report the incident to his relations, who are residing within the area.
He said the deceased was taken to a nearby hospital where he was confirmed dead. According to him, some policemen from the outpost in the area came to the hotel for investigation. He said, “After that, the man’s corpse was deposited at the mortuary, while the lady in question was detained by the police.” A police officer at the outpost, who preferred anonymity, confirmed the incident, saying the deceased’s corpse was deposited at the mortuary after an autopsy.
There have been countless cases like this one. Why are my sharing all of these stories? Why did I decide to talk about sexual activities? You know most people think when you engage in sexual discussions; then it means you are spoilt and blah blah blah…but the truth is sex education is very important. I can confidently tell you that sex and pornography are part of human existence and has always existed since ancient times.
My purpose of writing this blogpost is to REMOVE IGNORANCE from people because ignorance is a BIG disease! When you are not informed you are deformed! Why do most people use aphrodisiacs? Because they want to have a MAXIMUM sexual pleasure; and not only that: with the invention of smartphones, internet and computers pornography has now become a CHEAP fast-food that is available to ALL! People watch pornography and they want to have the same experience those pornstars in the porn videos are having. I know you do not want to hear this—BUT, I doubt if you can actually have the exact sexual experiences/pleasures those pornstars are having during their sexual activities. After watching porn videos people want to try out what they have watched with their partners WITHOUT being aware of these important factors:
- Pornstars have health teams that takes care of them.
- Porn videos are NOT shot at a stretch. When you watch porn videos and you see two adults immersed in HARDCORE sexual intimacy boisterously—KNOW this: porn videos are shot in scenes. If you are familiar with video editing, you will understand what a transition means. You notice that transitions are used in porn videos; although transitions are used in every videos. Pornstars go on intermissions during shooting. So, they can shoot one scene in a day and go for a one week intermission. After the one week they can shoot the other scene. It depends on the type of script they are playing out. Intermission can be three days, one month, etc before they continue shooting the remaining scenes. It also depends on the length of the video they are shooting. The porn actors can shoot one scene with hardcore and other scenes with softcore or a mixture of both. It all depends on the type of script they are playing out.
- Porn videos are shot at different times of the day. Before shooting a porn video, they check out for the time of the day when they will be in a high energy: either early hours of the morning; night, evening or even afternoon. The weather is also put into consideration.
I hope this little information helps anyone out there who is so obsessed with having maximum sexual pleasure. Remember, health is wealth. Sex is not a do or die affair. While it is good to have fun; do it wisely! While it is understandable that sometimes one can feel the desire to unleash and indulge in all of the animalistic sexual desires; you also want to be careful! Some people have low libido, some are average and some have high libidos. No matter what, discretion and decency cannot be overemphasized when it comes to engaging in sexual intercourse. I am going to end this post with words from the Good Witch: “Moderation is the one place where all philosophies meet. Both Human and Divine.”
Kingsley Osajie 