The Ignorance of Sex Related Death

Death is part of human existence. It is even in our soul contract as we are here on earth; people die through different means. Just today, I was reading the newsheadlines and I watched a video of two adults in Kenya who were tied” or “locked” into each other. It is a long story but the summary is that the two adults were having sex in Airbnb apartment they have rented and it happened: the man was stuck inside the woman. The Airbnb attendant tried but could not; they have to call police officials who came to the rescues of these two adults and carried them off to the hospital.

There are many beliefs surrounding this kind of situations. It has happened in Nigeria here and other parts of Africa; according to how I heard it and according to people who have actually witnessed it happened to other people: it is believed that a wife or husband can use juju to make a cheating partner to be locked during sex with another person. They say it is a way of finding out if your wife or husband is cheating on you.

Another thing I would like to clarify is that: sex is an integral and natural part of human existence. Apart from being tied during sexual intercourse, many people have lost their lives during sexual activities. Many people often use aphrodisiacs just to ensure they have maximum sexual pleasures. I am not against using aphrodisiacs. Anything you do with your body is your personal business. You decided where you put your body and who you share it with.

When I was in college, news came to our hostel that a boy who wanted to have a MAXIMUM sexual pleasure met with a friend of his and then this friend gave him a substance to drink to maintain a LONGLASTING erection! So this guy took this aphrodisiac; even after the sexual activities his penis did not go down. According the story the boy was rushed to the hospital where doctors have to work on him to restore his erection into normalcy. I have also read a story in the magazine of two students in the university who died during sexual intercourse. How people came to know about their death: after noticing their absence from school and in the hostel; that is when they decided to knock on the door of the boy and no response was coming. The friends and neighbours also called his number but it was not been answered. After some hours they decided to break the door. It was when they broke the door that they saw the dead body of the boy and his girlfriend alongside other aphrodisiacs in the room.

One neighbour who always complained about her concubine not been able to satisfy her sexually because she has a high libido learned the hard way. After complaining to the man that he was not satisfying her; the man had to take an aphrodisiac and visited her. That day, hell was let loose—it was neighbours who came to the rescue of the woman; broke the door open and pulled out the man. The woman was actually hospitalized.

Last weekend in Abuja, a 31-year-old man died in a hotel room with a sex worker. It happened in Gwagwalada, Abuja. A man identified as Ajayi Nicholas slumped and died inside a sex worker’s hotel room at New Kutunku community in Gwagwalada Area Council of the FCT.

A resident of New Kutunku, Josiah Gabriel, told DAILY TRUST on Tuesday that the incident happened at the weekend around 5pm when the deceased checked into a hotel room in the area. He said the 31-year-old man slumped when he was about to leave the room and the woman rushed to alert the manager of the hotel. However, the hotel manager identified the deceased and rushed to report the incident to his relations, who are residing within the area.

He said the deceased was taken to a nearby hospital where he was confirmed dead. According to him, some policemen from the outpost in the area came to the hotel for investigation. He said, “After that, the man’s corpse was deposited at the mortuary, while the lady in question was detained by the police.” A police officer at the outpost, who preferred anonymity, confirmed the incident, saying the deceased’s corpse was deposited at the mortuary after an autopsy.

There have been countless cases like this one. Why are my sharing all of these stories? Why did I decide to talk about sexual activities? You know most people think when you engage in sexual discussions; then it means you are spoilt and blah blah blah…but the truth is sex education is very important. I can confidently tell you that sex and pornography are part of human existence and has always existed since ancient times.

My purpose of writing this blogpost is to REMOVE IGNORANCE from people because ignorance is a BIG disease! When you are not informed you are deformed! Why do most people use aphrodisiacs? Because they want to have a MAXIMUM sexual pleasure; and not only that: with the invention of smartphones, internet and computers pornography has now become a CHEAP fast-food that is available to ALL! People watch pornography and they want to have the same experience those pornstars in the porn videos are having. I know you do not want to hear this—BUT, I doubt if you can actually have the exact sexual experiences/pleasures those pornstars are having during their sexual activities. After watching porn videos people want to try out what they have watched with their partners WITHOUT being aware of these important factors:

  1. Pornstars have health teams that takes care of them.
  2. Porn videos are NOT shot at a stretch. When you watch porn videos and you see two adults immersed in HARDCORE sexual intimacy boisterously—KNOW this: porn videos are shot in scenes. If you are familiar with video editing, you will understand what a transition means. You notice that transitions are used in porn videos; although transitions are used in every videos. Pornstars go on intermissions during shooting. So, they can shoot one scene in a day and go for a one week intermission. After the one week they can shoot the other scene. It depends on the type of script they are playing out. Intermission can be three days, one month, etc before they continue shooting the remaining scenes. It also depends on the length of the video they are shooting.  The porn actors can shoot one scene with hardcore and other scenes with softcore or a mixture of both. It all depends on the type of script they are playing out.
  3. Porn videos are shot at different times of the day. Before shooting a porn video, they check out for the time of the day when they will be in a high energy: either early hours of the morning; night, evening or even afternoon. The weather is also put into consideration.

I hope this little information helps anyone out there who is so obsessed with having maximum sexual pleasure. Remember, health is wealth. Sex is not a do or die affair. While it is good to have fun; do it wisely! While it is understandable that sometimes one can feel the desire to unleash and indulge in all of the animalistic sexual desires; you also want to be careful! Some people have low libido, some are average and some have high libidos. No matter what, discretion and decency cannot be overemphasized when it comes to engaging in sexual intercourse. I am going to end this post with words from the Good Witch: “Moderation is the one place where all philosophies meet. Both Human and Divine.”

Top 10 Smartest Dog Breeds to Own as Pet

I love animals and I love dogs. In this post I am sharing about 10 breeds of dogs to keep as a pet. Are you an animal lover? Do you have love for dogs? If yes you can let me know your favorite dog breeds in the comment section. Just as humans have different types of intelligence and aptitudes for different skills, dogs have different areas of intelligence and things they’re good at. Here is a list of 10 of the smartest dogs breeds you can own

Poodle:

    They may look like accessory dogs, but don’t let the poodle’s elaborate hairstyles fool you. In any size, from tiny toys to small miniatures to large standards, poodles are surprisingly clever. First bred in Germany as duck-hunting dogs and water retrievers, these are versatile, performance-oriented dogs that crave attention and love to show off. This may explain why they’re as much at ease doing tricks in a circus ring as they are hunting birds in the field. Poodles are also excellent companion dogs, especially the smaller varieties. But all sizes excel at learning tricks and obedience, as well as a number of dog sports. Poodles are people-oriented and eager to please, but need a good deal of daily exercise and healthy outlets for their energy and cleverness.

    Siberian Huskies

    Huskies are known for their striking beauty and wolf-like build, but they require an active lifestyle to thrive. Huskies that are trapped indoors all day often grow bored and restless and develop behavior issues. However, when huskies are in their natural environment, they truly shine. These dogs were bred to pull heavy loads during cold Siberian winters, and they love doing strenuous work. Huskies are excellent at carrying equipment on a hike, and their endurance is impressive.

    German Shepherd

    The German shepherd is widely regarded as the Swiss army knife of dogs. These are highly intelligent and adaptable dogs that are as courageous as they are skilled at problem solving, which makes them excellent at police and military work. German shepherd dogs are loyal and loving, form tight and protective bonds with their families, and can be reserved toward strangers. They’re energetic, driven and easily bored. Like the border collie, they’re happiest when they have a job to do. German shepherds need early socialization, ongoing obedience training and frequent exercise and activity to stay calm. They may bark at strangers or to alert you to possible danger, and they can also be quite vocal, expressing themselves with grunts and whines.

    Golden Retriever

    Golden retrievers may not be the most intelligent dog on the list, but they top the list of smart dogs who make great family pets, according to Fratt. “They are generally excellent family dogs that are even-keeled and go-with-the-flow,” Fratt says. This versatile breed is great at hunting and retrieving, search and rescue, and makes excellent service dogs for the blind and disabled. Goldens are intelligent and easy to train, but they’re also sensible in a way that makes them more stable and reliable than more high-strung smart breeds. But for all their seriousness while at work, they’re also fun-loving dogs who enjoy their playtime. They have energy and stamina that make them ideal for keeping you company on long walks or runs, although low-impact activities will go easier on their joints.

    Doberman Pinscher

    Doberman pinschers may look intimidating, but only because that’s often their job. Underneath that fierce demeanor is a sweet, fun-loving soul that’s eager to please. Dobermans are quick on the uptake, learning quickly to respond to commands. Bred to be personal protection dogs, Doberman pinschers don’t like to get too far from their people. They’re a versatile breed which does well at police and military work and search and rescue, as well as being good service and therapy dogs. As natural guardians, they bark to alert as well as to warn off strangers and perceived threats. They’re another high-energy breed that needs lots of exercise and engagement, as well as socialization and obedience training in order to be happy and well-adjusted. Lacking these things, they may become bossy, destructive and difficult to manage.

    Shetland Sheepdog

    These smart dogs can be trained to stop barking on command. Their wariness of strangers and tendency to “yell” at them makes them excellent little watch dogs. Like most herding breeds, Shelties are athletic and energetic. They need a moderate amount of exercise and mental stimulation that can be satisfied with daily walks, although they also do great at dog sports.

    Labrador Retriever

    While Labrador Retriever are highly intelligent and easy to train, what sets them apart is their ability to self-train through observation and imitation. This makes them excellent at search and rescue, as well as drug and bomb detection. Labrador Retriever also make great service dogs. These active water dogs also love swimming and dock diving.

    Jack Russell Terriers

    Farmhouses and barns are often faced with pest problems, particularly when rats and mice seek protection from the winter cold. Jack Russell Terriers are bred to hunt down and dig up pests wherever they hide, so they can solve an infestation problem in short order. These stubborn terriers need plenty of training and human interaction, but their hardworking, loyal nature makes them an excellent investment.

    Beagle

    Conveniently sized with short, low-maintenance coats, the Beagle is a smooth-coated dog breed that’s both peaceful and cheerful. They do require some exercise, so a fenced-in yard is an ideal setting for them. A hunting breed with great curiosity, these hounds enjoy exploring and keeping their noses active.  Beagle white-tipped tails make them easier to see and track through the woods, according to Embrace Pet Insurance

    Rottweiler

    Large and powerful, Rottweilers are sometimes misunderstood because of their stature. However, they are actually one of the most intelligent dog breeds—easy to train and willing to work. Their broad chests and muscular bodies stand out, but Rottweilers have even bigger hearts and make for devoted companions.

    Remembering Christy Essien Igbokwe: The “Nigerian Lady of Songs”

    When it comes to Nigerian music; there are people who have left indelible mark that will stay for eternity. There are people that without mentioning their names the Nigerian music industry will not be complete; among such people are Christy Essien-Igbokwe. Christy is affectionately and honourarily known as “Nigeria’s Lady of Songs.” Her hit track is Seun Rere; this song is actually one of my favorite songs and the only song of her that I know. Although she has other songs like Tete Nu Na Ula, Ife, Hear the Call and Give Me a Chance. But this one is her hit track—a song that made waves all over Nigeria and beyond.

    Christy Essien Igbokwe: Wikipedia page picture

    Growing up, they always play Seun Rere on the radio. The song was sung in Yoruba language; thank God my mom understands Yoruba very fluently; I literally fell in love with the song Seun Rere each time I hear it play on the radio so I asked my mom what Christy was saying in the song and she told me the interpretations (side note: my mom was born and raised in Western Nigeria: the part of Nigeria where the Yoruba tribe are mostly and densely located). The word itself “Seun Rere” means Thank Goodness or Thank God.

    The theme of the song Seun Rere talks about being obedient to our parents. I will share the lyrics of the song with you (the Yoruba lyrics and the English translation). I was actually playing the song on my headphone at the time of typing this article. A very beautiful song I tell you! Let me also tell you that whatever gave Christy the inspiration to write that song must be commendable! Here is the lyrics of the song (in Yoruba and English)

    Biography

    Her complete name is Christy Uduak Essien-Igbokwe. She was born on 11 November 1960. Christy was a musician and actress born in Okat, Onna, Akwa Ibom State. Her mother died when she was 12; she then lived in Aba, Abia, with a friend of her mother, who encouraged her singing career and bought her a second-hand cassette player to record her songs. She sang in IgboIbibioEfikHausaYoruba, and English. Her native language is Ibibio.

    Career

    Christy began her musical career in secondary school, singing at clubs such as Unikoko in Aba. She appeared as a regular on the NTA Aba variety shows Now Sound and Ukaonu’s Club. In 1976, she joined the cast of The New Masquerade as Akpenor, the wife of the cantankerous character Jegede Sokoya (Claude Eke). She released her debut album (Freedom) the following year. Essien most successful album was the 1981 Ever Liked My Person? (produced by Lemmy Jackson).

    In her later years, she performed with her second son, Chinwuba Kenechukwu Kaka, at the January 2009 Inspire Africa benefit concert and participated in the MTN Musical Festival later that year. Chinwuba Kenechukwu Kaka is a hip-hop artist and producer and the father of her granddaughter Christiana Chizaramekpeleamaka Ijeoma. Essien’s album, Ever Liked My Person? was certified platinum in Nigeria. A biography titled “The will of God” was produced and sponsored by Exxon Mobil in the 90s to show her life and career so far at the time. Her granddaughter has remixed the song, Seun Rere.

    Death

    Essien-Igbokwe died of gastrointestinal disease on 30 June 2011 at age 50 at Lagos State University Teaching Hospital.

    Awards and Honours

    Christy has won several awards amongst which are: Silver Prize Winner at 6th Seoul Songs Festival, South Korea–1983, Grand Prix Winner at Neewollah Music Festival at Independence, Kansas, US–1983, International Special Achievement” Award of MUSEXPO, Acapulco, Mexico, 1983 Certificate of Merit Award for Song writing and composing at the 10th Annual American and a host of others.

    Black Lives Matter Interview

    Today, I thought I would share the interview I did on American blog with Alesha Escobar and I thought to share with you.

    What inspired you to write a book on the Black Lives Matter movement, and how did your personal background influence your perspective?

    The killing of George Floyd was what gave me the inspiration to start writing this book. When I first heard the news on the radio and social media, I was shocked and traumatized. The way George Floyd died is capable enough to make anyone who has a good conscience teary-eyed. I was literally traumatized, overwhelmed and filled with goosebumps. For good one week I kept touching my neck and imagining all the terrible pain George Floyd had to go through before he died. I still remember that evening in 2020 my brother and I were watching the news of George Floyd death on Facebook and I was screaming because of the population. My mom was drawn by our scream and she came out of the kitchen to ask us what the matter was. Then I told her—she asked me to bring her eye-glass for her and I did.  We began watching the video; then she said “this place does not look like Nigeria even if I am seeing Black people on the screen. It looks like London or America. Then I told her it was America and what happened. She was reading through the names of the places the masses were moving with protests (Minnesota, New York, Georgia, Miami etc).

    My mom asked what George Floyd did for him to be killed by the police and I explained. Then she asked what the Black people were doing and I told her that the Black people were protesting. As we were watching the video; my mom asked a very thought-provoking question that led me further into investigating the narrative of Black Americans. The question she asked was: “Is this protest going to stop the killing and maltreatment of Black Americans”? She removed her eye-glass, nodded her head in disappointment and sadness and went back to the kitchen. Now to be honest, the protest did not stop the killing of the Black Americans; because even during the protest; many Black Americans were still killed.

    I will never forget the cold-blooded killing of a Black American man during New Year. What was his crime? He was shooting the usual shooting of jubilation people normally do in his compound. Other White people were also doing the shooting. The White policeman that confronted him did not even give him a chance to speak and he shot him instantly! That was a very terrible thing to do. My personal background has some influences on my views because back here in Africa we have similar realities to that of Black Americans. Ours here is being perpetuated by the leaders. For example, in Nigeria there is a STRONG disunity and division between the Northern Nigerians and Eastern Nigerians. There is also a STRONG division and disunity between the Western Nigerians and the Eastern Nigerians. The Northern Nigerians do not see other Nigerians from the East and South as Nigerian enough. There is a long, long history behind it. That will be a topic for another day. In fact, we as Black people still have in-house-Black-to-Black racism. I am from Southern Nigeria (Delta State). I will share with you what someone from Northern Nigeria told me. It is the second time someone from Northern Nigeria is saying it. And it is something we have been seeing happening. We were in a group for African Youths. It was a virtual meeting we had with members of the AU (African Union); it was on Friday and we were to carry out some tasks. The Northerners in the group said that the timing for the task would interfere with their worship in the mosque; so we told them that they could go for their worship since there would be a recorded version and they refused. Insisting that the timing for the task MUST be postponed to suit them. All efforts to try to make them understand proved abortive. Here is what someone from the group said—a Northern Nigerian person.  “I commend you for engaging people like them. The average Northern person does not see any bad in a person so long they practice the same religion and does not see any good in anyone so long they are of different religion and tribe. I am from the North but for my sanity I do not engage with them” (the Northerners). Keep in mind that the Northern Nigerians are predominantly Muslims.

    How does the movement resonate with people in your home country, and how did you approach bridging the cultural experiences between Africa and African-American communities in your book?

    The Black Lives Matter movement resonates with every Africans because it is a call for FREEDOM. But unfortunately, that call has not been heard or answered. There is no much cultural gap between African-American and Africa because the African-Americans are from Africa. The truth of the matter is that Black people do not have freedom yet. You would think that a very illustrious person such as Barack Obama who has been a President of the United States of America would be able to liberate Black Americans from the injustice, maltreatment and racism they are subjected to but unfortunately, he could not achieve that. Over here in Africa, we only have “puppets” as rulers. These puppets DANCE to the tune of their White Masters. If you know the Colossal influence the Caucasian leaders have on Black “leaders” you will be shocked. Suffice to say that the Caucasian leaders have Black “leaders” under their feet (I mean the Black leaders are under the feet of the Caucasian leaders). The wishes of the Caucasian leaders are the COMMAND of the Black “leaders.” We have many Caucasians here in Nigeria. They live as Kings and Queens, gets the Nigerian Visa at a blink of the eye! But for a Nigerian to get an American Visa, Canadian Visa, German, UK, Australian, Singaporean Visa it would take lot of protocols and waiting.

    What themes in the book do you feel are universal, and which ones speak specifically to the Black experience in relation to social justice?

    The theme of Racism, Slavery and Injustice being faced by the Blacks. It is so shameful, sad and disappointing that Black people all over the world are synonymous to racism and maltreatment. For example, when a Black American woman traveled to Barcelona Spain. As she was exchanging greetings with the Spanish woman the Spanish woman asked her where in Africa she was from and the Black American replied that she was American. You would not believe what the Spanish woman told her. I quote: “You are not American enough.” This was what the Spanish woman told her. That statement is very deep. It is a reminder to the Black American woman on her origin and root. It is also a reminder on how her forefathers were shipped from Africa in shackles and slaves to work in the plantations of United States of America. Akila Davis a Black American woman who works in the media in North Carolina has never been allowed to wear her original African dreadlocks because the White people did not see it as something beautiful. Only on the Juneteenth day was she able to have the freedom to wear her original African dreadlocks.

    Something happened in a classroom in Illinois between a White teacher and her students. The White teacher was teaching and the students were making noise in the classroom; instead of calming the students she told the Black students that “they (the Black students) would have been her ‘Field Slaves’ if it wasn’t for the Constitution, they would be her slaves.”

    In Kansas City, a Black American man Jon “Mike” Rone Jr. was stabbed to death by a White man whom he was engaged in an altercation. The police arrested the White man who killed the Black man on the reason that he (the White man) was disturbing the peace of the environment. Not that he killed a person. That clearly shows that the Black Lives Matter movement has not achieved its aim and the Black Lives has not mattered.

    We have seen Black people in America face all kinds of killings and injustices. From Texas, Louisiana, Illinois, Oklahoma, Florida, Wisconsin Kansas, etc. unfortunately the Black people have not been able to rise above this maltreatment, stigma and label—both in Africa and outside Africa. If you notice the Asians in America do not live in the same reality as the Black Americans do because the Asians have unity, love and respect among themselves. The Asians knows their roots and as a matter of fact, the Asians were not brought into America as slaves.

    Going back to Africa: South Africa is a country that is famous for Apartheid. A very terrible trend that has stuck with South Africans. Even if Nelson Mandela sacrificed his life for 27 years in prison fighting against apartheid—I am sad to say that Nelson Mandela did not win the battle to end Apartheid. One would think that a very visionary and luminary person as Nelson Mandela would be able to stop Apartheid in South Africa and give his Black people a total liberation but unfortunately that could not be possible as the White minority in South Africa are the ones who still drives the economy and are in control. South Africa enjoyed a little Golden Age during the reign of Nelson Mandela as president. There are places that are referred to as “Whites only” in South Africa. In 2016, a White South African woman Penny Sparrow labelled all the Black South Africans as monkeys.

    If I tell you that South Africa was built by the Whites I am being honest because I talk with evidence not with emotions. Johannesburg, Witwatersrand, Waterfront, Pretoria, Cape Town, Pietermaritzburg, Transvaal, Durban East London, Port Elizabeth, King Williams Town, King James Town, Elandsfontein, Bloemfontein, Sun City, to mention but a few these are not African names. These are all beautiful places in South Africa built by the White people. I will not forget the beautiful Krugersdorp-Kruger National Park in South Africa. It was built by the Whites. Till today apartheid continues to exist in South Africa. For example, of recent, Black South Africans students are seen being auctioned off as slaves in a school in Cape Town, South Africa by their fellow White students.

    The same thing has happened in Illinois, USA where a White teenage was auctioning his Black friend in craigslist as a slave. The White teenage posted a picture of his Black friend with the title “Slave for Sale.”

    An American woman Elizabeth Billingsley said: “If we are White people, it is as a result of the choices made by our forefathers. If we are Black people, it is also a choice made by our forefathers.”

    This picture was posted on Facebook by a Black American man from Louisiana USA. In the Facebook post he captioned it “The problem of Black people.” Do you understand what the illustration in this picture means?

    To further explain what Elizabeth said; I will quote a Nigerian singer Cynthia Morgan

    “Until Black Lives Matter to Blacks—Nobody Cares.” Cynthia Morgan

    “It all goes back to when it all started. White people bought slaves from who? BLACK people, and who are these slaves? Black people. We sold ourselves out and lost our respect the day this trade took place. A White man cannot have respect for a race that sold their own race to other race not for marriage or better life but for slavery. White people being smart enough then they thought superior and gained it.

    Have you ever thought it could have been the other way round? Like the Whites could have been in this position right now? But one race was just smarter at that point in time. Now our forefathers already made that mistake. Can we correct it? Yes. How? By gaining our respect and equality and its not by fighting these White people, its about knowing ourselves and finding our respect and in doing so, regrets and blames won’t help us.

    White people have every right to be proud and do whatever pleases them. Its only natural, that’s how people act when they see all your comfort and life depends on them. What we are fighting is more than just color thing. It’s more of mentality problems. The only reason why white cops don’t and wouldn’t kill a white man is because they respect themselves and they know what they have put into building their nation. It’s hard before you see a white man pull a white man down intentionally.

    You all can’t even come back to Africa because Africa is not ready for ya’ll. Most of you forgot your roots and stayed angry that they sold your forefathers out but somehow you still prefer it there in America. Black people might no longer be in chains of a white man physically but somehow they still are mentally. We need to build our own so we can earn our own respect back. Put some respect in you as a Black man, else we are always going to be 2nd choice.”

    Can you share some of the challenges you faced in crafting a narrative around such a complex and emotionally charged topic?

    I did not face any challenge because it is a reality happening to Black people all over the world and even here in Africa. The only thing was I had to make up my mind to write this book. It took discipline, courage, time and dedication.

    What kind of research did you conduct, and were there any specific events or individuals that deeply shaped the story you told?

    I conducted a very extensive and in-depth online research from actual life stories. I made sure that all information are from real people and real life experiences with no sugarcoating, assumptions and hypocrisy. That is why for every story or topic I mention or write about in this issue of Black Lives Matter; there is a source to that information as it is. Yes, the event of George Floyd and other events of the horrible and gory events that happened to Black people in Kansas City, North Carolina, Louisiana, etc and the reality we as Black people are experiencing back home in Africa were what shaped the story in this book. It was a lot of sacrifice! I had to painstakingly read through every actual life stories—accuracy and authenticity was my watchword before, during and after my writing this book on Black Lives Matter.

    How do you hope your readers—especially those outside of the Black community—will respond to the message in your book?

    The people who are outside of Black community find it difficult to relate to the reality of Black people. Because they do not live in the same reality that Black people are living in. The Forefathers of non-Black people were wise enough to not sell their own out to slavery. The forefathers of non-Black people have laid a very good foundation for their posterity. This is something that Black people have missed out on! Remember I mentioned what the Oklahoman woman (Elizabeth Billingsley) said. I am sure that non-Black people will understand the message in my book and respond to it positively because the message in my book carries TRUTH with it.

    I have a deep compassion for Black Americans and Black people. For every Black person; there is inside trauma and negative patterns they are living with. This is something passed down from the Black ancestors. Only very few Black people have been to liberate themselves out of these negative patterns and invisible cords. I watched a Black American man saying “our brothers in Africa hate us so much that is why they sold us out into slavery.” That was during the killing of a Black man in Wisconsin USA.

    Black Americans do not like associating with Africa because there is no good connection existing between them and Africa. It is not their fault that they are being treated the way are being treated today. It is a foundation the Black forefathers laid and it will require a miracle to break this (evil) chain and pattern. I encourage every Black person to always do a meditation and personal liberation from negative Ancestral patterns that have been following Black people.  Whether you believe it or not, the things our forefathers have done affects us—until we awaken to a consciousness of it and breaks that covenant or the chain. It takes a LOT of spiritual muscles. That is why even in the Old Testament it was said the sins of the forefathers will continue to visit the children up to the third and fourth generations. This is what is affecting Black people.

    Another part of the problem is that Black lives have not mattered to Blacks so you cannot expect other races to give you what your own kind are not giving to you. If the African Union (AU) knows what it is doing it would seek to pave way for the protection, liberation and betterment of the Black people.  There is a lot of work to be done on the issue of Black people.

    When Lazaris came to South Africa some years ago he tapped into the energy of the land and made a very profound observation about Africa. I will quote him: “Africa has a unique relationship with pain and suffering and this is evidenced by the genocide, starving and poverty in Africa. Africa needs healing. Africa also has a unique gift to heal the pain and suffering. It is in the form of a unique magic but it is lost in the land, in the minerals and in the animals that make up this land.  It is hidden in the corruption, and in the pain and in the suffering in Africa.”

    To get a copy of my book on Black Lives Matter visit the my online ebook store.

    How this Nigerian Female Singer Distinguished Herself from Fellow Singers

    Niniola (Nigerian singer and songwriter)

    Fame and Fortune comes with a lot of stress and inconveniences. It takes a lot of maturity, wisdom and spirituality to handle a Celebrity status and being a Public Figure. Many female artists in the Nigerian music industry have always been in one drama or the other. Only very few artists are able to maintain a clean reputation and live without drama. There is one artist who has caught my attention and her songs are topnotch too. This female Nigerian artist have really distinguished herself; suffice to say that she knows her onion. And she is honorarily known as the Queen of Afro-House; in my own perspective she truly deserves this title. You would ask: who is this artist? Her name is Niniola!

    Niniola Biography

    Niniola was born on born 15 December 1986 as Niniola Apata to the family of Rt. Brigadier General Simeon Olaosebikan Apata and Mrs. Margaret Apata in Lagos State. She is known professionally as Niniola, a singer and songwriter. Niniola is a Nigerian singer and sognwriter. She is the direct elder sister to Teni. Niniola began her journey to limelight after she participated in the sixth season of Project Fame West Africa in 2013. She released her debut single “Ibadi”, and was nominated for Most Promising Act to Watch at the 2015 Nigeria Entertainment Awards.

    Education

    Niniola began her education both primary and secondary school education at Apata Memorial High School, and she earned a bachelor of education certificate from the University of Lagos.[8] She comes from a polygamous family where she was the sixth of ten children, raised by three mothers and a father who was killed in 1995

    Music Career

    According to Niniola, her musical influences are: Dolly PartonWhitney HoustonCeline DionThe CranberriesMadonnaBeyoncé and Angélique Kidjo. During an interview with Gbolahan Adeyemi of NGWide in 2015, Niniola expressed her fondness for singing in Yoruba, citing that it enhances the beauty of song delivery. As of 2018 Niniola’s style of music was described according to BET as “a mixture of afrobeats and house music.” Niniola released the Sarz-produced single “Maradona” in 2017. The song spent 13 weeks on South Africa’s Metro FM chart, retaining the number 1 position for 6 weeks. Niniola earned nominations at the 2018 BET Awards and SAMAs for “Maradona”. In 2018 DJ Snake teamed up with Niniola and created Maradona Riddim a remix to her previously released hit Maradona. She received nods from Canadian rapper Drake and American record producer Timbaland.

    Some of the hit songs of Niniola which are actually my favorites are Designer and All Eyes on Me. These songs are truly a must watch and she displayed panache in the videos. Believe me, the video qualities of the videos are topnotch! I Another thing that makes me admire Niniola is the fact that she is able to sing in her mother tongue of Yoruba. Being able to sing in one’s mother tongue is another sign of being highly talented. I always enjoy playing Designer and All Eyes on Me on repeat. For example, in the song Designer; she said:

    Awon kon like Gucci
    Awon kon like Fendi
    Awon kon like Seruti
    E mi o like ehh
    Awon kon like Gucci
    Awon kon like Ferrari
    Awon kon like Designer

    Na the way you dey do me
    Na the wa you dey do me
    Boy I like the way you dey do me
    I Like the way

    Laarun Laarun La shi shey laarun laarun
    Laarun Laarun La shi shey laarun laarun
    Laarun Laarun jaiye lo laarun laarun
    Laarun Laarun jaiye lo laarun laarun Let me kiss you kpa
    Wine your waist jukpa
    E mi man jerukpa
    Wine your waist jukpa
    If I am going to be honest with you; I would tell you that the lyrics of Designer by Niniola are enchanting and beautiful. The lyrics of All Eyes on Me are cool too. From the beat and rhythm of these In the song All Eyes on Me she said in part:

    Ma kesekese wa sinu party yi now
    Ma kesekese wa sinu party yi now
    Tori boucner wa leyin ‘le kun wa ti ri

    All eyes on me when I enter the party oh e
    All eyes on me when I enter the party e (All eyes on me)
    Ma kesekese wa sinu party yi now
    Mo ni ma rin gbere gbere wa sinu party yi now

    Won gbe, wan gba
    Morire gba

    On Being an Independent Artist

    In a recent interview with TVC she explained why she has chosen to be a solo artist. According to Niniola she turned down offers from record labels to sign her because she is wary of the business side of music. According to her, various labels have approached her, but she chose to remain independent. She explained that being an independent artist gives her creative freedom.

    “I have been an independent artist for 10 years. There are pros and cons of signing with a record label. I have seen the business side of doing music which a lot of people don’t see, they just focused only on making music. “Being an independent artist gives me the opportunity to also do what I want. I’m in charge of my creativity. A label wanted to sign me after my debut single but I was skeptical because I didn’t want anyone to switch my style. Because at that time, nobody was doing Afro-house. They can dictate what you do because they are the ones financing you. For me, creative freedom is one of the major pros of being an indie artist,” she said. Niniola also disclosed that she is an introvert but music brings out the extrovert in her.

    For Niniola to be able to maintain her music career as a solo artist means that money is her servant. Trust me, she has had a very successful music career as she currently has over one million followers on Instagram. But above all, she has maintained a clean reputation devoid of drama like is common with many artists.

    Discovering Your Heritage: The Power of Ancestral Connections

    There are 2 connections we have with our Ancestors. This connections can be different for everyone depending on the family history, covenant and ancestral patterns that exists in that family. The first connection I will talk about is the connection to know your root. To know where you are from and know your culture; that is why every sane parents should make sure their children knows their roots. Knowing your root has its own level blessing, peace and freedom that comes with it. I have seen countless times where people who were born in faraway lands or live in faraway lands have to trace back their roots to connect with their ancestors just to feel the freedom, joy, peace and blessing that comes from knowing where you are. Connecting with your ancestors is not literally you going to the shrine to do libation and such. It is knowing who you and where you are from. This connection often involves getting to know your hometown, country, state and family members. The land which walk as your root gives you a level of freedom, inner peace and pride–in you knowing that THIS is where I am from.

    The other “connection” to ancestor is the one of liberation. In this connection to your ancestors. Your aim is to visit your ancestors (energetically) to remove yourself from every karmic debt, covenant and negative patterns that have been existing in your family. This kind of patterns usually creates chaos, setbacks, misfortunes , evils and other kinds of negativity in the life of that person because you are still under the influence of the ancestral covenant of darkness. So the question is how do you connect with your ancestors? And how do you liberate yourself from ancestral negative covenant and patterns hampering your success? I will share with you a prayer for the ancestors written by Abby Wynne. Keep in mind that there are other ways you can explore….but I just loved this prayer from Abby Wynne; since I subscribe to her newsletter I was able to get this prayer from her newsletter and I thought I would share with us. I hope you find it helpful. But keep in mind that other extra works are required to back it up even as you pray to liberate yourself from the negative ancestral patterns that you may have been carrying unknowingly to you!

    For the Ancestors 

    I call on my ancestors and say thank you for all you endured so that I could be here. I appreciate you. I break the chains you carried through the generations. It stops right here, with me. I know some of you don’t understand, some envy, some anger, but it is my time now. I release the bonds, chains, trauma, patterns and anything that is holding me back anything that held you back so that we can blossom. I know some of you celebrate with me, clap my successes, weep when I fall down…It is because of you I get back up again. It is because of you, I push through

    We evolve and grow – each generation because of the works of the hands of the last generations. To my great, great, great, great, greats. I honour you. Each one of you, those that I knew and those of you that I will never know, To all of you. I know you in my heart. And you know me and together, unity.

    May November bring abundance, uplifting opportunities, progress, higher vibrational lifestyle, constant Divinity, sweetness and joy

    The BEST Speech Ever Made!

    Don’t Miss A Word! The Famous and Profound Speech by Miriam Novak The UN General Assembly

    Miriam Novak (Oblong Media)

    “We have given you the alphabet, the Bible, the Virgin Mary, Jesus Christ, the twelve apostles, Spinoza, Disraeli, Columbus, Newton, Nostradamus, Heine, Mendelssohn, Einstein, Singer, Eisenstein, Freud, Landau, Gershwin, Offenbach, Rubinstein, Saint-Saëns, Kafka, Lombroso, Montaigne, Mahler, Marcel Marceau, Vsevolod Meyerhold, Yehudi Menuhin, Stefan Zweig, Arthur Miller, Maya Plisetskaya, Stanley Kubrick, Irving Berlin, Edward Teller, Lion Feuchtwanger, Paul Newman, Robert Oppenheimer, Benny Goodman, Eugène Ionesco, Imre Kálmán, Marcel Proust, Marc Chagall, Barbra Streisand, Claude Lelouch, Steven Spielberg, Anouk Aimée, Leonard Bernstein, Norbert Wiener, Larry Page, Mark Zuckerberg, Sergey Brin, Andrew Lloyd Webber and thousands of other scientists and educators.”

    For two thousand years we have lived among you, offering you our knowledge, discoveries and inventions.

    At the UN Special General Assembly in New York, held at the request of the leaders of the European Union and the New Arab Bloc, the representative of Israel, Miriam Novak, spoke.

    Standing at the podium, in front of the green marble wall of the main UN hall, Miriam Novak said into the microphone:

    “Ladies and gentlemen! As you know, eighty years ago, Europe, led by Germany, carried out an ethnic purge: it exterminated almost all the Jews who lived there. French, Belgians, Dutch, Norwegians, Hungarians, Slovaks, Poles, Lithuanians, Ukrainians – all helped the fascists.

    You killed at least six million Jews, including newborn babies. Each of them could have given the world children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, so you can multiply the number of killed by four or five…

    And now, when we are again plundered, beaten and killed in all your countries, and your courts release the murderers, you tell us that we have no right to defend ourselves?

    We have no right to warn our enemies that we will respond to a new ethnic cleansing with an even more powerful strike?

    Perhaps you can name another nation whose extermination is so fanatically sought by your new Iranian-led international community? And why?

    For two thousand years, we have lived among you, offering you our knowledge, discoveries and inventions.

    We have given you the alphabet, the Bible, the Virgin Mary, Jesus Christ, the twelve apostles, Spinoza, Disraeli, Columbus, Newton, Nostradamus, Heine, Mendelssohn, Einstein, Singer, Eisenstein, Freud, Landau, Gershwin, Offenbach, Rubinstein, Saint-Saëns, Kafka, Lombroso, Montaigne, Mahler, Marcel Marceau, Vsevolod Meyerhold, Yehudi Menuhin, Stefan Zweig, Arthur Miller, Maya Plisetskaya, Stanley Kubrick, Irving Berlin, Edward Teller, Lion Feuchtwanger, Paul Newman, Robert Oppenheimer, Benny Goodman, Eugène Ionesco, Imre Kálmán, Marcel Proust, Marc Chagall, Barbra Streisand, Claude Lelouch, Steven Spielberg, Anouk Aimée, Leonard Bernstein, Norbert Wiener, Larry Page, Mark Zuckerberg, Sergey Brin, Andrew Lloyd Webber and thousands of other scientists and educators.

    Imagine how many such geniuses could have been born from the millions of Jews killed by you, and then from their children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren!

    But these unborn geniuses disappeared forever in crematoriums, burned synagogues, and mass graves.

    So do you really think that your resolutions, boycotts and sanctions can bring us back to the gas chambers?

    No, ladies and gentlemen! Having lived among you for two thousand years, we have had to adapt to you and learn not only your languages, but also some aspects of your psychology.

    Otherwise, how would we have survived in Persia without Persian perfidy? In Spain without the Spanish cruelty? In Germany without German submission to discipline? In France without French avarice? In Poland without Polish vanity, and in Russia without the oaths and the Russian habit of court latrines, where one must squat and talk about one’s spiritual greatness? — (Laughter in the room.)

    “And that is why I will tell you frankly: yes, we are not angels. Among us there have been international crooks and gangsters, Lansky, Medoff and Epstein, thieves, looters, adventurers and even pedophiles.

    But in all our common history, there has never been a Jewish Bogdan Khmelnitsky, Adolf Hitler and Joseph Stalin. There have never been Jewish Josef Mengele and Erik Koch, Jewish Adolf Eichmann and Idi Amin, Jewish Andrei Chikatilo and Li Zicheng, Jewish Jeffrey Dahmer and Jean Bokassa, Jewish Fritz Haarmann and Ted Bundy, Jewish Nikolai Dzhumagaliev and Albert Fish.

    We have never made necklaces with human ears, never scalped, never eaten human flesh, never made soap with human fat, never made lampshades with human skin, never made mattresses with women’s hair, never burned people in religious temples, and never killed children in gas chambers. Instead, we created things that changed the world for the better.

    Drip irrigation, seawater desalination, Intel processors and Centrino and Core Duo platforms, the world’s smallest DNA computer and the world’s first USB flash drive, nanowire and camera pill, multiple sclerosis drug and exoskeleton, Google Glass for the blind and baby breathing monitor, The radar that can see through walls, the holographic reality artificial intelligence synthesizer, and hundreds of other wonderful things.

    Representing only 0.2% of the world’s population, we have given the world 32% of the Nobel Prize winners. Yes, I forgot to tell you: we have never consumed and do not consume the blood of Christian infants to make matzah. Already in 1913, three Orthodox experts on Judaism proved this at the famous Beilis trial in Kiev.

    In 1962, the Second Vatican Council lifted our guilt for the crucifixion of Christ, and in 2011, Pope Benedict XVI declared that “the Christian cannot be anti-Semitic, we have the same roots.” In 2019, his successor, Pope Francis I, said that “every Christian has a Jew in him” and that “one cannot be a true Christian without acknowledging one’s Jewish roots.”

    In addition, the head of the global Catholic Church said that “the covenant between God and Jews continues to apply” and “that anti-Semitism includes not only attacks on Jews, but also criticism of Israel.”

    Finally, in June 2020, the Rev. John Hagee, the leader of American Evangelical Christians, published his “Appeal to the World,” in which he said simply and clearly, “Why do we, eight million patriotic American Christians, support Israel? Because God is on Israel’s side! If a Christian says he doesn’t like Jews, then his false Christianity is very dubious. God says, “I will bless those who bless Israel! I will curse those who curse Israel!”

    And now I want to ask the European delegates in this room: who do you think you are? Are you Christians or not? When you pray to Jesus Christ, the Virgin Mary, and the holy apostles, are you not praying to the Jews? And when you say that you carry the image of Christ in your heart, do you not admit that you carry a Jew in your soul?

    Even if you are a hard-core atheist, your ancestors were Christians for two thousand years, and therefore, Judaism is in your blood – whether you like it or not!

    So, ladies and gentlemen. If you insist on the international boycott of Israel because you continue to hate Jews and want the total extermination of Jews on earth, then be consistent – start with yourselves, do seppuku! It will be an honest ethnic purge.

    And now, as we say here in America, I have news for you. Now, after the Christians, it is the turn of the Muslims to get rid of anti-Semitism.

    Yes, it won’t be easy, but just as the Almighty helped humanity get rid of the bubonic plague, anthrax, cholera, and coronavirus, He will help you get rid of anti-Semitism.

    You ask: why? Why has the Almighty brought us back to Israel and forced you to give up your desire to destroy us? For He has to have a purpose, doesn’t He?

    I will give you my personal opinion. For according to His purpose, every nation is to bring to mankind what it does best.

    The French – cooks and perfumers.

    The English and the Russians – writers and poets.

    Italians – artists and musicians.

    The Germans – soldiers and philosophers.

    And we Jews – geniuses.

    Geniuses who, in all fields, are advancing humanity from barbarism and idolatry to culture, humanism and technical progress. This is our mission, which we have been accomplishing for two thousand years, despite everything!

    So whether we have genetic, torsional, nuclear, tectonic, cosmic, or other defense weapons, that’s none of your business! Whether you allow us to have defensive weapons or not, we don’t care.

    As one of the founders of our state, Ze’ev Jabotinsky, once said: “Whether you like us or not, we don’t care, we arrived before you and we will leave after you.”

    Friendship That Got Community Talking

    I feel very happy to share this story with you. This story is a very a unique story and part of what makes me happy to share this story with you is because it is an award winning story! I have not won any award yet. But the fact that I was selected by a UK based publishing company to write this story (which has premiered in the Tribeca Film Festival in Cannes France and also won the American Cultural Impact Award); is something I am extremely grateful for and proud of too. I am going to share a little about this story here and I will put a link for you to read my feature post about this lovely story in the UK publishing website where it has already been published. But I am just sharing it here on my blog out of gratitude.

    Nate and John first meet in the sixties when John, a surly teen hippy, is forced to get a haircut and Nate, a Black young barber’s assistant, obliges. From this ordinary beginning, a slow profound friendship blossoms between the two men over decades’ worth of trips to Nate’s barber chair.

    As Nate and John grow old, they are there to support each other through all of life’s important milestones and hurdles. Until one day, when Nate misses their usual appointment for the first time ever. As John discovers Nate in a hospital bed, he also learns the scale of Nate’s impact on the community.

    Nate & John

    Read more about this story with this link.

    The Importance of Railbus in my City (Abuja)

    Abuja, the capital city of Nigeria stands on the precipice of an uncertain future, driven by its rapid population growth. Encircling the city lie several satellite towns, such as Gwagwalada, Bwari, Kuje, Maraba, and Karshi, that were originally intended to be homes for the working-class and low-income earners. The idea was to facilitate daily commutes for people who work in the city centre. However, mainly due to the lack of a functional urban mobility network, the planned spatial arrangement in these settlements has not been successful. As a result, residents are left with no choice but to rely on private cars and taxis. This reliance is worsening the growing traffic congestion and exposing residents to high amounts of ambient carbon dioxide daily.

    Railbus pictures: http://www.railbus.com

    Socio-economically, the absence of affordable railbus services in Abuja translates to the city’s underpaid working class spending a substantial part of their meagre income on transportation, leaving very little for essential needs like food. This reality significantly contributes to the growing chasm between the city’s rich and poor. This situation has been further exacerbated by the recent removal of petroleum subsidies, resulting in a staggering 200 per cent hike in petrol costs. To avoid the high cost and inconvenience of commuting to and from the city centre, many of Abuja’s low-income earners have chosen to live near the city at all costs.

    Railbuses are designed to utilize sustainable energy sources like electricity or hybrid systems that emit very low or no greenhouse gases. This makes them a greener mode of public transport.

    The benefits of Railbus mobility cannot be overemphasized. Railbus will play a vital role in ensuring environmental and social justice in Abuja as it has the capacity of bringing equitable distribution of transportation and ensuring seamless access to local destinations, goods and services within the city.

    Creating a sustainable and equitable railbus system is crucial for Abuja as it will bring an integrated, sustainable multi-modal transport system that significantly reduces the number of private cars on the road and seamlessly citizens at different levels, with options to alternate between transport modes as needed.

    By seamlessly integrating the Railbus options in Abuja; it can create a comprehensive low-cost mobility solution that has the potential to address equity issues by providing affordable and equitable access to urban spaces.

    The chronic congestion and the dilapidated state of road networks in Abuja signals the urgent need for innovative transport solutions. Railbus, with its potential for high-volume passenger transport, presents an effective answer to these challenges. Its adoption could significantly reduce traffic congestion, improve road safety, and enhance the overall efficiency of the city’s transport system.

    Establishment of Railbus in Abuja would lead to job creation, not only within the transport sector but also across ancillary industries. Additionally, by improving accessibility to urban and rural areas, it can spur economic activities and foster trade. Ultimately, the increased efficiency in transportation will translate into cost savings for both commuters and goods, contributing positively to the city economy.

    The introduction of RAILBUS services stands to immensely benefit local communities. Enhanced mobility can lead to improved access to education and healthcare, thereby advancing social welfare. Furthermore, the Railbus system will promote inclusivity by providing affordable and reliable transport options, bridging the gap between different socioeconomic groups within the city.

    In terms of environmental sustainability, the shift towards Railbus systems signifies a major stride towards sustainability. Rail-based transport is known for its lower carbon footprint compared to road vehicles, thereby contributing to the reduction of greenhouse gas emissions. The adoption of Railbus in Abuja will help to combat climate change and promote environmental conservation.

    Urban areas suffer from significant noise pollution due to conventional traffic. The Railbus, particularly electric models, operates more quietly than traditional buses and trains. Reduced noise levels not only improve the quality of life for urban residents but also have positive effects on wildlife, which can be adversely affected by high noise levels.

    The Railbus system holds tremendous promise for Abuja, offering a viable solution to the city long-standing public transportation challenges. By leveraging existing infrastructure, promoting environmental sustainability, and fostering economic growth, the Railbus has the potential to transform the way citizens move and connect. Since Railbus can easily reach areas not easily reached by traditional rail systems; giving passengers extensive transport network coverage and convenience ultimately contributing to a more inclusive and prosperous future for Abuja.

    Mercy Johnson and Her Colleagues: The Way I See It

    (From left: Angela Okorie, Mercy Johnson & Husband: Legit News)

    I do not usually interfere the squabbles of celebrities. But this one really got my attention. For some time now, there have been altercations upon altercations between Nollywood actresses. This time the altercation is between Mercy Johnson and Angela Okorie. Mercy Johnson is a household name in Nigeria and one of the most popular Nollywood actresses. But it looks as if she is in hot water.

    What made me to be interested in this issue is because Mercy Johnson has refused to come out to clear her name. Instead of her to come out and clear her name. The husband was the one who came out to give a reply. Something I find to be very distasteful, unmanly and unwise.

    So what is the altercation between Mercy Johnson and Angela Okorie about?

    Angela Okorie Calls Out Mercy Johnson

    Nollywood actress Angela Okorie has called out her colleague Mercy Johnson Okojie with surprising clandestine claims against her.

    In her Instagram story, she declared that it is time for murders, blood-drinking devils, and evildoers in Nollywood to be put to an end. 

    “Time up for evildoers in Nollywood. Time up for Mercy J. After these prayers, I pray some of you don’t turn to Goat. Cos, I don’t know why she is turning into a goat instead of Snake. God abeg o,” she said in part.

    Nigerian actress Angela Okorie generated another buzz online as she called out Mercy Johnson Okojie The screen goddess made several mysterious claims about her colleague and also added her late mother to the picture Angela further pointed out the importance of prayers in the Nollywood industry so that God could open their eyes to all that she was seeing.

    Actress, Mercy Johnson’s Alleged Best Friend Accuses Actress of Being a Witch, Recalls Childhood Experience

    The recent accusation against veteran Nollywood actress Mercy Johnson Okojie by her colleague, Angela Okorie has escalated further. This is as Ifeoma, who is allegedly a former best friend to the mother of four, told her story as she called Mercy out for witchcraft.

    During an Instagram live session with Angela, who recently dragged Zubby Michael, Ifeoma accused Mercy of black magic, alleging that her late mother was the brain behind it. According to Ifeoma, Mercy was initiated at a young age as her mum and grandmum were witches. Recounting a childhood experience, Ifeoma claimed Mercy’s mum made her exchange her clothes with the actress in a strange room.

    I watched this video on Instagram of Ifeoma (Mercy Johnson childhood friend telling Angela Okorie about this same issue). From what I can deduce is that someone cannot have such effrontery to spill out these facts if there is no evidence or experience of it.

    No doubt, Mercy Johnson is a talented actress. Even before all these squabbles has begun; I have somehow felt the same way about Mercy Johnson. Well, there is nothing wrong in using one’s metaphysical power for one’s upliftment. So if Mercy Johnson is a witch and she used her witchcraft to launch herself into limelight; then good for her! But if there are evil activities on her part like her childhood friend Ifeoma has been saying that Mercy Johnson mother swapped her destiny with Mercy destiny; then Karma and Nemesis will definitely come for Mercy. Also, I am not too surprised to hear this about Mercy Johnson because since I learnt that she is from Kogi state; that was when I knew she would definitely behave like a Kogi person.

    Back to Mercy Johnson Husband

    Many people have slammed Mercy Johnson husband for his response to Angela Okorie. For me Mercy husband coming out to give a response to Angela is very foolish. If he was a wise husband, he would encourage Mercy to come out and address the issue. From the response he gave to Angela Okorie that alone justified everything that Angela Okorie has said about Mercy Johnson. Plus, Mercy Johnson keeping quiet over it justifies it too.

    I want to hear from you. Do you think it is right for a husband to reply his wife’s colleague or friend when his wife is being called out by her friend/colleague? Does it even make sense for a man to be the one to reply to his wife’s friend/colleague when the wife is having squabbles with her friends/colleagues? Could it not have been better for Mercy husband to advise Mercy to come out and clear her name or respond to Angela and her own childhood best friend? What better way could Mercy Johnson husband have responded? Just in case you are wondering: here is what Mercy Johnson responded to Angela Okorie

    “Na Mango Wey Ripe Dem They Throw Sticks at”

    In turn, Angela Okorie responded to Mercy husband

    Reacting to claims of her battling mental issues, Angela, in a live video, mocked Prince Okojie, whom she called a houseboy under his wife’s alleged witchcraft influence.

    She added that Prince would remain under Mercy’s spell for the rest of his life. Amid the backlash that trailed her comment about Mercy, Angela stood by her accusations against Mercy. “To that houseboy wey dem dey use; you no fit get sense for life, na so you go dey carry handbag for life. I no dey tarnish the image of Mercy Johnson, I called her out with my full chest. Why? Because at the end of the day, you’re not better than me,” she said.

    Kogi people are FAMOUSLY known for being VERY diabolical. Kogi is a state in central Nigeria; Black magic is the MAINSTAY of Kogi people. I read a Kogi girl saying that though she is from Kogi state that she can never live in Kogi. Another one said he had to run away from Kogi state so that they will not kill him as he was the only child of his parents. I have a reservation for that state…and trust me when you hear someone say that Kogi people are evil believe it.

    Personally, I have also had an experience with a Kogi person. We were supposed to be a team member. But his toxicity was too much for me to bear. Even from the first day he told me that he is from Kogi state that was when I knew he would behave like one and he did. For my sanity and wellness, I had to pull out of that group and got rid of him. It was a very good riddance.