People who love and understand music know that Enya is a Goddess on her own right! Enya was the artist chosen to write the song used in The Lord of the Rings. The title of the song is May It Be. She actually travelled to New Zealand where Lord of the Rings was shot to work on the Music. The lyrics of this song is BEYOND Earth!! And she says in her Quenya terms “Mornie Utulie” Enya is a Celtic woman (Irish) and she lives in the Manderley Castle in Dublin with her cats and family. She is a Grammy award-winning singer!! But have chosen to live a very quiet and private life. Enya has noted that she ‘was always quiet, even as a child, so there has always been an air of mystery around me’ also mentioning that ‘at school, they would always say, “oh, we never know what Eithne is thinking or what she will say next.”
Background of Enya
Originally born with the name as Eithne Pádraigín Ní Bhraonáin on 17 May 1961. Her name was anglicized as Enya Patricia Brennan and known mononymously as Enya. She is the sixth of nine children in the Brennan family of musicians, born to Máire “Baba” and Leopold “Leo” Brennan. Enya is an Irish singer and composer. With an estimated equivalent of over 80 million albums sold worldwide, Enya is the best-selling Irish solo artist, and the second-best-selling music act from Ireland overall, after only the rock band U2. Her music has been widely recognized for its use of multi-layers of her own vocals and instrumentation, lengthened reverb, and interwoven elements of Celtic music.
Raised in the Irish-speaking region of Gweedore, Enya began her musical career in 1980 playing alongside her family’s Irish folk band Clannad. From the age of 11, Enya attended a convent boarding school in Milford, Milford College, run by the Sisters of Loreto; Enya’s education there was paid for by her grandfather. The boarding school, now Loreto Community School, was where Enya developed a taste for classical music, art, Latin, and watercolour painting. She said, ‘It was devastating to be torn away from such a large family but it was good for my music.’
Enya finished boarding school at age 17 towards the end of the 1970s, and she spent a year at college studying classical music. She previously saw herself becoming a piano teacher, as both her mother and grandmother had done, and gave piano lessons for a brief time in the early 1980s. This later evolved into composing and performing her own music. Enya states that ‘music was never far from my mind but contrary to popular belief my ambitions were in no way connected to those of my family, as I knew I wanted to have my own career and make my own mark.’
Answering The Call of Her Destiny
Enya left Clannad in 1982 to pursue a solo career, working with the former Clannad manager and producer, Nicky Ryan, and his wife Roma, as their lyricist. Nicky suggested to Enya that either she return to Gweedore ‘with no particular definite future’, or live with him and Roma in suburban Artane, Dublin ‘and see what happens, musically’, the latter of which Enya decided was best for her career.
After their bank denied them a loan, Enya reportedly sold her saxophone, which she had been learning to play at the time, and also gave piano lessons as a source of income. Nicky Ryan used what they could afford to build a recording facility in the Ryans’ garden shed, formerly a Scout hut, which they named “Aigle Studio”, after the French word for eagle. They would have breakfast and Enya would head off to the studio. Shortly after leaving Clannad and the family home in Gweedore, Enya lived with the Ryans from 1982, until 1989, when she was able to buy her own penthouse apartment in Killiney. Enya lives in the Manderley Castle in Dublin, Ireland.
Enya House/Castle in Manderley, Dublin Ireland (Picture: Wikipedia)
Watermark was released in September 1988 and became an unexpected hit, reaching number 5 in the United Kingdom and number 25 on the Billboard 200 in the United States following its release there in January 1989. Its lead single, “Orinoco Flow“, was the last song written for the album. It was not intended to be a single at first, but Enya and the Ryans chose it after Dickins jokingly asked for a single; he knew that Enya music was not made for the Top 40 chart. Dickins and engineer Ross Cullum are referenced in the song’s lyrics. “Orinoco Flow” became an international top 10 hit and was number one in the United Kingdom for three weeks, and is credited with bringing new-age music to the mainstream market in America.
The new-found success propelled Enya to international fame and she received endorsement deals and offers to use her music in television commercials. She spent a year traveling worldwide to promote the album which increased her exposure through interviews, appearances, and live performance. In 1993 Enya won her first Grammy Award in the Best New Age Album category for ShepherdMoons. Enya was offered the opportunity to compose the film score for Titanic but declined as it would be a collaboration, rather than solely her composition and singing.
A recording of her singing “Oíche Chiúin”, an Irish-language version of “Silent Night“, appeared on the charity album A Very Special Christmas3, released in benefit of the Special Olympics in October 1997. Her song Only If was released as a single in 1997. Enya described the album as ‘like a musical diary… each melody has a little story and I live through that whole story from the beginning… your mind goes back to that day and what you were thinking. In 1998, Enya, Roma and Nicky Ryan received the Ivor Novello award for International Achievement. In 2002, Enya released “May It Be” as a single which earned her an Academy Award nomination for Best Original Song. She performed the song live with an orchestra at the 74th Academy Awards ceremony in March 2002, and later cited the moment as a career highlight.
Accolades
Enya in 2025 (from Google images)
Enya accolades include four Grammy Awards and six World Music Awards, and she holds the record as the most-nominated female Irish artist at the BRIT Awards, with four nominations. “May It Be“, her composition from the soundtrack of The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring (2001), received a nomination for an Academy Award for Best Original Song. In March 2025, Enya received the RTÉ Choice Music Prize Classic Irish Album award, with her 1988 breakthrough album Watermark.
In the aftermath of the 9/11 attacks, US sales of the album and its lead single “Only Time” surged after the song was widely used during radio and television coverage of the events, leading to its description as ‘a post-September 11th anthem’. The exposure caused A Day Without Rain to outperform its original chart performance to peak at number 2 on the Billboard 200, and the release of a maxi-single containing the original and a pop remix of “Only Time” in November 2001. Enya donated its proceeds in aid of the International Association of Firefighters. The song topped the Billboard Hot Adult Contemporary Tracks chart and went to number 10 on the Hot 100 singles. Making the song Enya highest charting in US single to date.
One thing I have learned from the life story of Enya as with any other stories I have read is that God has MADE the existence of humans to be symbiotic and that reminds me of the Zulu saying “Ubuntu Ngumuntu Gabantu” meaning a person is a person through another person. If you read through the story of Enya, you will notice that, there will never be any mention of Enya without these names: Nicky Ryan and Roma Ryan.It was this couple that actually took Enya into their house to live with them and sponsored her music career. Helping Enya to launch herself into stardom as a globally recognized and successful singer!
I personally enjoy listening to Enya songs. Her songs are ethereal with the capacity to send you into a very sublime Celestial Realm of Bliss and Elysian. For example: Orinoco Flow, Caribbean Blue, May It Be, Only Time, Ebudae, Adiemus, Wild Child, Only If, Storms in Africa. I am actually interested in adding more of her songs to my music collection. After reading through the journey and life story of Enya I have come to a conclusion that music is her destiny and I can confidently say that before Enya was born, she already had a soul contract with Nicky Ryan and Roma Ryan who would be the channel through which she would be able to fulfill her destiny as a singer. Without Nicky Ryan and Roma Ryan no one could have known the name “Enya.”
People with disabilities have historically faced barriers to employment that limit their potential and prevent them from participating in the workforce. They are often viewed as objects of charity or as lacking the skills necessary to compete for jobs. However, people with disabilities have a valuable perspective and benefits that can contribute to a companies growth.
In today’s world, especially in Africa where unemployment rate is rare and difficult to see people with disabilities having a maximum and optimal inclusion in the labour force. With such menace; it is very pertinent to push for the inclusion of people with disabilities into the employment processes as they have been well marginalized. It must be pointed out also that the disabled—in them lies a great wealth of potential and talent yet to be tapped and unlocked. For this reason, giving them access and promote in the employment process can never be overemphasized!
According to The Understood Team, “Disability inclusion at work is about more than hiring people with disabilities. An inclusive workplace values all employees for their strengths. It offers employees with disabilities— whether visible or invisible—an equal opportunity to succeed, to learn, to be compensated fairly, and to advance. True inclusion is about embracing difference.”
Why Disability Inclusion?
Disability inclusion is also crucial to your hiring process. If candidates face barriers during the application and interview process, or if they sense that your business is not inclusive, they’re likely to look elsewhere. Companies with strong disability inclusion programs have better access to talent and better employee retention. They have the tools they need to help their employees thrive.
Everybody gains from disability inclusion
For the one billion women and men with disabilities, inclusion in the labour market, and in society requires the breaking down of existing barriers. By including people with disabilities, companies, individuals and society at large all win.
The benefits of inclusive workplaces
Access to talent By focusing on skills rather than stereotypes, you access an untapped pool of talent.
Increased innovation Employees with diverse experiences have different approaches to problem solving.
Increased engagement and retention Employees who feel included have higher levels of loyalty and enthusiasm.
Better reputation Customers value companies that show a real commitment towards inclusion.
The Maternal Law Group has pointed out employers’ obligations towards People with Disabilities; which are:
Employers must provide reasonable accommodations to employees with disabilities to perform the essential functions of their job.
Employers must treat people with disabilities fairly throughout the selection process, during employment, and when they remove them.
Employers may not engage in any conduct that creates a hostile work environment, such as offensive jokes or teasing.
Creating a Disability-Inclusive Workplace
To create a successful disability-inclusive workplace, employers should start by:
Educating their workforce. Hiring and training people with disabilities are not enough if the rest of the employees do not know how to interact or adapt to the new work environment.
Communication about accommodating individuals with disabilities should be transparent, and all employees should be involved in the process. It’s crucial to recognize that there is no one-size-fits-all approach.
Companies may need to make changes to their physical environment, such as parking spots or entrance ramps, or adopt new technological applications, videos, or sign language interpreters.
Creating a disability-inclusive workplace is more than just complying with legal reforms. It is an opportunity for employers to tap into a diverse, talented workforce that benefits everyone. When employers create a culture of inclusion, they are sending a message that everyone has value. Businesses that intentionally embrace inclusivity not only benefit from diverse perspectives and talents but also contribute to positive societal change. Hiring people with disabilities not only helps them achieve better economic independence and quality of life but also builds a more inclusive and equitable workforce overall.
I was at the Oxfam Office in Maitama Abuja for a conference with People with Disabilities. A lady who is among the physically challenged persons made some profound points which I am sharing below:
According to her over 31,000,000 (thirty-one million) people are living with disability in Nigeria. She mentioned the interventions that could further help to ameliorate the reality being experienced by the PWDs to include:
Tools to be accessible to the disabled people. The first step is to include persons with disabilities in the affairs of the nation. She commended Oxfam for including people living with disabilities in their meeting at the same time emphasized that disability is never homogenous.
Qualified and educated women/people with disabilities should be given meaningful positions in the government as they will be in a better space to speak and represent the PWDs. Using herself as an example, she cited that her multi-lingual ability has helped to reach the hearts of the PWDs in remote/rural areas as she is able to speak Hausa, Yoruba and Igbo very fluently. According to her when she is in the northern part of Nigeria for campaign she speaks the Hausa language, when she is in the western part of Nigeria for campaign she speak Yoruba language and when she is in the Eastern part of Nigeria for campaign she speaks the Igbo language. She also cited an example where she was in a market in Oyo state for campaign. According to her, as soon as she began speaking the Yoruba language she was surrounded by all the market women as that drew their attention making it possible to reach the heart of those women and had a very successful campaign there in Oyo state.
Quality services in terms of sustainable shelters/welfare and accessibility to the services even if it means giving stipends to the PWDS to enable them transport themselves to the places where the necessary facilities they need are located.
Health needs. Provision of affordable (and even free) medical care for the PWDs.
Training of people without disabilities. She maintained that their organization train people without disabilities which make them serve as advocate and voice for the people living with disabilities.
Contextualization to suit the needs of the PWD. She mentioned that environmental factors and cultural differences matters because what works in the northern part of Nigeria might not work in the southern part of Nigeria and what works in the southern part of Nigeria might not work in the eastern part of Nigeria and same thing to the western part of Nigeria as well. She encouraged a renewed and upgraded mode of operation.
(Jamie Miller in the Adolescence TV Series. Photo credit: Netflix)
The story behind this trending TV Series titled Adolescence is about a 13-year-old schoolboy Jamie Miller who is arrested after murdering a girl in his school. The movie began in an English town in Britian UK, armed police raid a family home and arrest Jamie Miller, a 13-year-old boy, on suspicion of the murder of a classmate, Katie Leonard. Jamie is processed and held at a police station for questioning and then remanded in custody at a secure training centre. It continued with investigations at Jamie school. After being interviewed by a forensic psychologist it was revealed that Jamie has been chronically bullied via social media.
Other students, including Katie, had targeted him on Instagram, calling Jamie ugly and labelling him an incel. Jamie internalized these labels and lashes out at his psychologist. At home, Jamie family deals with the community backlash against them as they work together to cope with Jamie arrest and subsequent detention. The question now is what would you do if your teenage son was accused of murder? This is one of several questions at the heart of the new crime drama Adolescence. The gripping story unfolds in real time as the main characters from the central family to the detectives investigating the crime; search for answers in the wake of a shocking tragedy. Who is actually responsible for this crime? Why did it happen? Could it have been prevented?
I have found this TV drama “Adolescence” shocking and captivating. It has actually captivated audiences around the world. Audience all over the world are saying that it is a rare opportunity to tackle the largely hidden world of online misogyny and violence. Adolescence TV drama was released on Netflix on March 13 and since then more than 96 million people have watched the British four-episode series that begins with armed police raiding the home of a terrified 13-year-old boy accused of murdering a young girl, and ends with a raw illustration of the pain of his broken family. The action in between this Adolescence TV series, shockingly defies the initial disbelief that a child so young could commit such a violent crime! It depicts a toxic online culture known loosely as the manosphere in which common teenage male insecurities about attractiveness and romantic failure can turn into resentment and hatred of the opposite sex. Certainly, people are going to have different opinions. There are people who will watch it and think “but that boy cannot do that.”
This TV series Adolescence reached the home of British Prime Minister Keir Starmer. He watched it with his teenage son and daughter. According to Starmer, “It hit home hard.” Currently, Keir Starmer is promoting a scheme to make the TV series Adolescence available to schools across Britain and encouraging a national conversation on the issues it raises. Starmer says “this isn’t a challenge politicians can simply legislate for. Believe me, if I could pull a lever to solve it, I would.” For me I have always believed that such incidents or realities of Jamie Miller cannot happen in Nigeria. But I had to think again and realized that teenagers across the world have almost the same characters. But there is a DIFFERENCE.
The realities that play out in other countries does not happen in Africa/Nigeria. Keir Starmer has demonstrated with his actions that UK has responsible leaders and elites. The leaders who have empathy, compassion and the people at heart. How many Nigerian elites or politician are willing to watch a Nigerian movie and at the same time champion the cause of promoting the movie to raise awareness and put a solution to any menace that the movie is talking about? NONE! This is where the DIFFERENCE I am talking about comes in. Unfortunately, in Nigeria issues as that of Jamie Miller are been swept under the carpet. Even if it gets exposed, bribery and corruption will give the culprits the chance to get away with their crimes.
After a meeting with Keir Starmer in Downing Street, British writer Jack Thorne, revealed that Adolescence was to be rolled out forfree across all UK secondary schools as an educational material for students—not just in Britain but the entire United Kingdom. I ask again, how many Nigerian or Black elites and politicians can do what Keir Starmer have done? NONE! Keir Starmer have demonstrated to be a man of the people, a man with a heart of gold and a true leader! A virtue that CANNOT be found among Black elites and politicians.
This statement is from the Bible. The complete statement is “seek ye first the Kingdom and his righteousness. Every other thing shall be added to you.” It has been used in songs and I have actually read about it from the Bible. You might ask: what is the Kingdom of God? How do you seek it? Why should you seek it?
The Kingdom of God
In the Bible, we are told a Paradise Earth that is awaiting mankind. A New World where peace, bliss, glory and eternal life will be for all mankind. According to the teachings of the Church, the Kingdom of God is only possible after the second coming of Jesus Christ. They say that sinners will not enter into the Kingdom of God. I am going to have a different interpretation aside from the Biblical description. Even if my interpretation is different, it is in harmony with what God Kingdom is about. Yes, it does not have to fit with the church teachings.
My Own Understanding about the Kingdom of God
In my own understanding the Kingdom of God is an Alternative Reality. A completely awakened phase for all of Humanity into a Higher Consciousness; where at the time all of mankind must have awakened to Higher Consciousness and that will also include Earth. The Kingdom of God is Alternative Reality. Pattern of living in the limiting 3D mundane lifestyle would have expired and become a thing of the past; because at this time all of creation must have awakened to a higher vibrational lifestyle where levitation, teleporting, direct connection to the Angelic realms etc are made possible without difficulties or restrictions. In this Alternative Reality, magic, miracles, abundance, bliss, love, compassion, harmony, elegance, panache, nonduality, constant divinity, extravagant grace, positive vibrations/energies, peace, empyrean and immortality will be a CONSTANT MANIFESTATION.
Where will the Dark Realms, Satan and Negative Entities Be?
Wondering where the dark realms and negative entities will be at that time? Well, I can tell you for free that in this Alternative Reality; the dark realms must have completed their cycles of existence and operation and would be put out of existence. Or alternatively will be subjected into eternal condemnation—disarmed from influencing humanity.
How are we going to Procreate in Alternative Reality? (AKA God Kingdom)
Procreation was allowed for Earth to be filled up with human beings. As it is now Earth has gotten more than enough humans. Remember there are others who have died that will be returned back to life to experience an awakening into a Higher Consciousness. In this Alternative Reality (God Kingdom); there will be no procreation. We would have become Immortal and in a higher vibration like the Angels. There will be nonduality; everyone will be living in their full divine rights. There will be no political organization and religious organizations anymore. Pure spirituality, elegance, panache, connection to the Greater Realms and Empyrean will be our constant experience and manifestation.
Why Should You Seek the Kingdom of God?
If you want to live a fulfilling life. One of joy and success, then you want to seek the Kingdom of God. That is practicing how to live in an Alternative Reality. This Earth is filled with hiccups, obstacles and heaviness. Practicing living in Alternative Reality (God Kingdom) is a sure way to put you in a positive momentum! A path of dominion, authority, power, victory, success, wealth and happiness. You become a Pillar of Light and a force to be reckoned with!
How do you Seek the Kingdom of God?
Seeking the Kingdom is an everyday work. It is not tied to a church or religion. You can seek the Kingdom of God by befriending your Guides and Angels. Reading spiritual books that are aligned with (true) spirituality. The Bible can be a good start; but there are other books too. You want to also include meditation and spending time in nature in seeking God Kingdom. Apart from the Angels mentioned in the Bible, there are other Spirit Guides (benevolent ones) working in harmony with the plan of God Kingdom to help Humanity arise to a Higher Consciousness. Example of such Spirit Guides are: Buddha, Kwan Yin, Krishna, Ganesha, Lazaris, Galexis and many others.
Unfortunately, religion and church has brainwashed many people (ESPECIALLY Black people) into believing that without going to church you cannot have access to God. Keep in mind that God is way too vast to be caged in a religion or church. For example, when Jesus wanted to choose his disciples, he went to the mountains (spending time in nature), during his fast for forty days and forty night he spent his time in the wilderness (spending time in nature), Jesus was baptized inside the Jordan River (spending time in nature). The 3 wisemen that visited baby Jesus Christ in the manger were magicians (even if it was abbreviated to Maggi. They were also astrologers). This shows us how vast and multidimensional God is. God is there in the waters, mountains, forest and wind. And He can use whatever he please to accomplish whatever mission he desires to! Sadly, religion has limited and caged most of humanity (especially Black people).
I thought I would share these videos with you so that you gain an idea of how to start seeking the Kingdom of God. I hope it helps you!
Death is part of human existence. It is even in our soul contract as we are here on earth; people die through different means. Just today, I was reading the newsheadlines and I watched a video of two adults in Kenya who were tied” or “locked” into each other. It is a long story but the summary is that the two adults were having sex in Airbnb apartment they have rented and it happened: the man was stuck inside the woman. The Airbnb attendant tried but could not; they have to call police officials who came to the rescues of these two adults and carried them off to the hospital.
There are many beliefs surrounding this kind of situations. It has happened in Nigeria here and other parts of Africa; according to how I heard it and according to people who have actually witnessed it happened to other people: it is believed that a wife or husband can use juju to make a cheating partner to be locked during sex with another person. They say it is a way of finding out if your wife or husband is cheating on you.
Another thing I would like to clarify is that: sex is an integral and natural part of human existence. Apart from being tied during sexual intercourse, many people have lost their lives during sexual activities. Many people often use aphrodisiacs just to ensure they have maximum sexual pleasures. I am not against using aphrodisiacs. Anything you do with your body is your personal business. You decided where you put your body and who you share it with.
When I was in college, news came to our hostel that a boy who wanted to have a MAXIMUM sexual pleasure met with a friend of his and then this friend gave him a substance to drink to maintain a LONGLASTING erection! So this guy took this aphrodisiac; even after the sexual activities his penis did not go down. According the story the boy was rushed to the hospital where doctors have to work on him to restore his erection into normalcy. I have also read a story in the magazine of two students in the university who died during sexual intercourse. How people came to know about their death: after noticing their absence from school and in the hostel; that is when they decided to knock on the door of the boy and no response was coming. The friends and neighbours also called his number but it was not been answered. After some hours they decided to break the door. It was when they broke the door that they saw the dead body of the boy and his girlfriend alongside other aphrodisiacs in the room.
One neighbour who always complained about her concubine not been able to satisfy her sexually because she has a high libido learned the hard way. After complaining to the man that he was not satisfying her; the man had to take an aphrodisiac and visited her. That day, hell was let loose—it was neighbours who came to the rescue of the woman; broke the door open and pulled out the man. The woman was actually hospitalized.
Last weekend in Abuja, a 31-year-old man died in a hotel room with a sex worker. It happened in Gwagwalada, Abuja. A man identified as Ajayi Nicholas slumped and died inside a sex worker’s hotel room at New Kutunku community in Gwagwalada Area Council of the FCT.
A resident of New Kutunku, Josiah Gabriel, told DAILY TRUST on Tuesday that the incident happened at the weekend around 5pm when the deceased checked into a hotel room in the area. He said the 31-year-old man slumped when he was about to leave the room and the woman rushed to alert the manager of the hotel. However, the hotel manager identified the deceased and rushed to report the incident to his relations, who are residing within the area.
He said the deceased was taken to a nearby hospital where he was confirmed dead. According to him, some policemen from the outpost in the area came to the hotel for investigation. He said, “After that, the man’s corpse was deposited at the mortuary, while the lady in question was detained by the police.” A police officer at the outpost, who preferred anonymity, confirmed the incident, saying the deceased’s corpse was deposited at the mortuary after an autopsy.
There have been countless cases like this one. Why are my sharing all of these stories? Why did I decide to talk about sexual activities? You know most people think when you engage in sexual discussions; then it means you are spoilt and blah blah blah…but the truth is sex education is very important. I can confidently tell you that sex and pornography are part of human existence and has always existed since ancient times.
My purpose of writing this blogpost is to REMOVE IGNORANCE from people because ignorance is a BIG disease! When you are not informed you are deformed! Why do most people use aphrodisiacs? Because they want to have a MAXIMUM sexual pleasure; and not only that: with the invention of smartphones, internet and computers pornography has now become a CHEAP fast-food that is available to ALL! People watch pornography and they want to have the same experience those pornstars in the porn videos are having. I know you do not want to hear this—BUT, I doubt if you can actually have the exact sexual experiences/pleasures those pornstars are having during their sexual activities. After watching porn videos people want to try out what they have watched with their partners WITHOUT being aware of these important factors:
Pornstars have health teams that takes care of them.
Porn videos are NOT shot at a stretch. When you watch porn videos and you see two adults immersed in HARDCORE sexual intimacy boisterously—KNOW this: porn videos are shot in scenes. If you are familiar with video editing, you will understand what a transition means. You notice that transitions are used in porn videos; although transitions are used in every videos. Pornstars go on intermissions during shooting. So, they can shoot one scene in a day and go for a one week intermission. After the one week they can shoot the other scene. It depends on the type of script they are playing out. Intermission can be three days, one month, etc before they continue shooting the remaining scenes. It also depends on the length of the video they are shooting. The porn actors can shoot one scene with hardcore and other scenes with softcore or a mixture of both. It all depends on the type of script they are playing out.
Porn videos are shot at different times of the day. Before shooting a porn video, they check out for the time of the day when they will be in a high energy: either early hours of the morning; night, evening or even afternoon. The weather is also put into consideration.
I hope this little information helps anyone out there who is so obsessed with having maximum sexual pleasure. Remember, health is wealth. Sex is not a do or die affair. While it is good to have fun; do it wisely! While it is understandable that sometimes one can feel the desire to unleash and indulge in all of the animalistic sexual desires; you also want to be careful! Some people have low libido, some are average and some have high libidos. No matter what, discretion and decency cannot be overemphasized when it comes to engaging in sexual intercourse. I am going to end this post with words from the Good Witch: “Moderation is the one place where all philosophies meet. Both Human and Divine.”
I love animals and I love dogs. In this post I am sharing about 10 breeds of dogs to keep as a pet. Are you an animal lover? Do you have love for dogs? If yes you can let me know your favorite dog breeds in the comment section. Just as humans have different types of intelligence and aptitudes for different skills, dogs have different areas of intelligence and things they’re good at. Here is a list of 10 of the smartest dogs breeds you can own
Poodle:
They may look like accessory dogs, but don’t let the poodle’s elaborate hairstyles fool you. In any size, from tiny toys to small miniatures to large standards, poodles are surprisingly clever. First bred in Germany as duck-hunting dogs and water retrievers, these are versatile, performance-oriented dogs that crave attention and love to show off. This may explain why they’re as much at ease doing tricks in a circus ring as they are hunting birds in the field. Poodles are also excellent companion dogs, especially the smaller varieties. But all sizes excel at learning tricks and obedience, as well as a number of dog sports. Poodles are people-oriented and eager to please, but need a good deal of daily exercise and healthy outlets for their energy and cleverness.
Siberian Huskies
Huskies are known for their striking beauty and wolf-like build, but they require an active lifestyle to thrive. Huskies that are trapped indoors all day often grow bored and restless and develop behavior issues. However, when huskies are in their natural environment, they truly shine. These dogs were bred to pull heavy loads during cold Siberian winters, and they love doing strenuous work. Huskies are excellent at carrying equipment on a hike, and their endurance is impressive.
German Shepherd
The German shepherd is widely regarded as the Swiss army knife of dogs. These are highly intelligent and adaptable dogs that are as courageous as they are skilled at problem solving, which makes them excellent at police and military work. German shepherd dogs are loyal and loving, form tight and protective bonds with their families, and can be reserved toward strangers. They’re energetic, driven and easily bored. Like the border collie, they’re happiest when they have a job to do. German shepherds need early socialization, ongoing obedience training and frequent exercise and activity to stay calm. They may bark at strangers or to alert you to possible danger, and they can also be quite vocal, expressing themselves with grunts and whines.
Golden Retriever
Golden retrievers may not be the most intelligent dog on the list, but they top the list of smart dogs who make great family pets, according to Fratt. “They are generally excellent family dogs that are even-keeled and go-with-the-flow,” Fratt says. This versatile breed is great at hunting and retrieving, search and rescue, and makes excellent service dogs for the blind and disabled. Goldens are intelligent and easy to train, but they’re also sensible in a way that makes them more stable and reliable than more high-strung smart breeds. But for all their seriousness while at work, they’re also fun-loving dogs who enjoy their playtime. They have energy and stamina that make them ideal for keeping you company on long walks or runs, although low-impact activities will go easier on their joints.
Doberman Pinscher
Doberman pinschers may look intimidating, but only because that’s often their job. Underneath that fierce demeanor is a sweet, fun-loving soul that’s eager to please. Dobermans are quick on the uptake, learning quickly to respond to commands. Bred to be personal protection dogs, Doberman pinschers don’t like to get too far from their people. They’re a versatile breed which does well at police and military work and search and rescue, as well as being good service and therapy dogs. As natural guardians, they bark to alert as well as to warn off strangers and perceived threats. They’re another high-energy breed that needs lots of exercise and engagement, as well as socialization and obedience training in order to be happy and well-adjusted. Lacking these things, they may become bossy, destructive and difficult to manage.
Shetland Sheepdog
These smart dogs can be trained to stop barking on command. Their wariness of strangers and tendency to “yell” at them makes them excellent little watch dogs. Like most herding breeds, Shelties are athletic and energetic. They need a moderate amount of exercise and mental stimulation that can be satisfied with daily walks, although they also do great at dog sports.
Labrador Retriever
While Labrador Retriever are highly intelligent and easy to train, what sets them apart is their ability to self-train through observation and imitation. This makes them excellent at search and rescue, as well as drug and bomb detection. Labrador Retriever also make great service dogs. These active water dogs also love swimming and dock diving.
Jack Russell Terriers
Farmhouses and barns are often faced with pest problems, particularly when rats and mice seek protection from the winter cold. Jack Russell Terriers are bred to hunt down and dig up pests wherever they hide, so they can solve an infestation problem in short order. These stubborn terriers need plenty of training and human interaction, but their hardworking, loyal nature makes them an excellent investment.
Beagle
Conveniently sized with short, low-maintenance coats, the Beagle is a smooth-coated dog breed that’s both peaceful and cheerful. They do require some exercise, so a fenced-in yard is an ideal setting for them. A hunting breed with great curiosity, these hounds enjoy exploring and keeping their noses active. Beagle white-tipped tails make them easier to see and track through the woods, according to Embrace Pet Insurance.
Rottweiler
Large and powerful, Rottweilers are sometimes misunderstood because of their stature. However, they are actually one of the most intelligent dog breeds—easy to train and willing to work. Their broad chests and muscular bodies stand out, but Rottweilers have even bigger hearts and make for devoted companions.
When it comes to Nigerian music; there are people who have left indelible mark that will stay for eternity. There are people that without mentioning their names the Nigerian music industry will not be complete; among such people are Christy Essien-Igbokwe. Christy is affectionately and honourarily known as “Nigeria’s Lady of Songs.” Her hit track is Seun Rere; this song is actually one of my favorite songs and the only song of her that I know. Although she has other songs like Tete Nu Na Ula, Ife, Hear the Call and Give Me a Chance. But this one is her hit track—a song that made waves all over Nigeria and beyond.
Christy Essien Igbokwe: Wikipedia page picture
Growing up, they always play Seun Rere on the radio. The song was sung in Yoruba language; thank God my mom understands Yoruba very fluently; I literally fell in love with the song Seun Rere each time I hear it play on the radio so I asked my mom what Christy was saying in the song and she told me the interpretations (side note: my mom was born and raised in Western Nigeria: the part of Nigeria where the Yoruba tribe are mostly and densely located). The word itself “Seun Rere” means Thank Goodness or Thank God.
The theme of the song Seun Rere talks about being obedient to our parents. I will share the lyrics of the song with you (the Yoruba lyrics and the English translation). I was actually playing the song on my headphone at the time of typing this article. A very beautiful song I tell you! Let me also tell you that whatever gave Christy the inspiration to write that song must be commendable! Here is the lyrics of the song (in Yoruba and English)
Biography
Her complete name is Christy Uduak Essien-Igbokwe. She was born on 11 November 1960. Christy was a musician and actress born in Okat, Onna, Akwa Ibom State. Her mother died when she was 12; she then lived in Aba, Abia, with a friend of her mother, who encouraged her singing career and bought her a second-hand cassette player to record her songs. She sang in Igbo, Ibibio, Efik, Hausa, Yoruba, and English. Her native language is Ibibio.
Career
Christy began her musical career in secondary school, singing at clubs such as Unikoko in Aba. She appeared as a regular on the NTA Aba variety shows Now Sound and Ukaonu’s Club. In 1976, she joined the cast of The New Masquerade as Akpenor, the wife of the cantankerous character Jegede Sokoya (Claude Eke). She released her debut album (Freedom) the following year. Essien most successful album was the 1981 Ever Liked My Person? (produced by Lemmy Jackson).
In her later years, she performed with her second son, Chinwuba Kenechukwu Kaka, at the January 2009 Inspire Africa benefit concert and participated in the MTN Musical Festival later that year. Chinwuba Kenechukwu Kaka is a hip-hop artist and producer and the father of her granddaughter Christiana Chizaramekpeleamaka Ijeoma. Essien’s album, Ever Liked My Person? was certified platinum in Nigeria. A biography titled “The will of God” was produced and sponsored by Exxon Mobil in the 90s to show her life and career so far at the time. Her granddaughter has remixed the song, Seun Rere.
Christy has won several awards amongst which are: Silver Prize Winner at 6th Seoul Songs Festival, South Korea–1983, Grand Prix Winner at Neewollah Music Festival at Independence, Kansas, US–1983, International Special Achievement” Award of MUSEXPO, Acapulco, Mexico, 1983 Certificate of Merit Award for Song writing and composing at the 10th Annual American and a host of others.
Today, I thought I would share the interview I did on American blog with Alesha Escobar and I thought to share with you.
What inspired you to write a book on the Black Lives Matter movement, and how did your personal background influence your perspective?
The killing of George Floyd was what gave me the inspiration to start writing this book. When I first heard the news on the radio and social media, I was shocked and traumatized. The way George Floyd died is capable enough to make anyone who has a good conscience teary-eyed. I was literally traumatized, overwhelmed and filled with goosebumps. For good one week I kept touching my neck and imagining all the terrible pain George Floyd had to go through before he died. I still remember that evening in 2020 my brother and I were watching the news of George Floyd death on Facebook and I was screaming because of the population. My mom was drawn by our scream and she came out of the kitchen to ask us what the matter was. Then I told her—she asked me to bring her eye-glass for her and I did. We began watching the video; then she said “this place does not look like Nigeria even if I am seeing Black people on the screen. It looks like London or America. Then I told her it was America and what happened. She was reading through the names of the places the masses were moving with protests (Minnesota, New York, Georgia, Miami etc).
My mom asked what George Floyd did for him to be killed by the police and I explained. Then she asked what the Black people were doing and I told her that the Black people were protesting. As we were watching the video; my mom asked a very thought-provoking question that led me further into investigating the narrative of Black Americans. The question she asked was: “Is this protest going to stop the killing and maltreatment of Black Americans”? She removed her eye-glass, nodded her head in disappointment and sadness and went back to the kitchen. Now to be honest, the protest did not stop the killing of the Black Americans; because even during the protest; many Black Americans were still killed.
I will never forget the cold-blooded killing of a Black American man during New Year. What was his crime? He was shooting the usual shooting of jubilation people normally do in his compound. Other White people were also doing the shooting. The White policeman that confronted him did not even give him a chance to speak and he shot him instantly! That was a very terrible thing to do. My personal background has some influences on my views because back here in Africa we have similar realities to that of Black Americans. Ours here is being perpetuated by the leaders. For example, in Nigeria there is a STRONG disunity and division between the Northern Nigerians and Eastern Nigerians. There is also a STRONG division and disunity between the Western Nigerians and the Eastern Nigerians. The Northern Nigerians do not see other Nigerians from the East and South as Nigerian enough. There is a long, long history behind it. That will be a topic for another day. In fact, we as Black people still have in-house-Black-to-Black racism. I am from Southern Nigeria (Delta State). I will share with you what someone from Northern Nigeria told me. It is the second time someone from Northern Nigeria is saying it. And it is something we have been seeing happening. We were in a group for African Youths. It was a virtual meeting we had with members of the AU (African Union); it was on Friday and we were to carry out some tasks. The Northerners in the group said that the timing for the task would interfere with their worship in the mosque; so we told them that they could go for their worship since there would be a recorded version and they refused. Insisting that the timing for the task MUST be postponed to suit them. All efforts to try to make them understand proved abortive. Here is what someone from the group said—a Northern Nigerian person. “I commend you for engaging people like them. The average Northern person does not see any bad in a person so long they practice the same religion and does not see any good in anyone so long they are of different religion and tribe. I am from the North but for my sanity I do not engage with them” (the Northerners). Keep in mind that the Northern Nigerians are predominantly Muslims.
How does the movement resonate with people in your home country, and how did you approach bridging the cultural experiences between Africa and African-American communities in your book?
The Black Lives Matter movement resonates with every Africans because it is a call for FREEDOM. But unfortunately, that call has not been heard or answered. There is no much cultural gap between African-American and Africa because the African-Americans are from Africa. The truth of the matter is that Black people do not have freedom yet. You would think that a very illustrious person such as Barack Obama who has been a President of the United States of America would be able to liberate Black Americans from the injustice, maltreatment and racism they are subjected to but unfortunately, he could not achieve that. Over here in Africa, we only have “puppets” as rulers. These puppets DANCE to the tune of their White Masters. If you know the Colossal influence the Caucasian leaders have on Black “leaders” you will be shocked. Suffice to say that the Caucasian leaders have Black “leaders” under their feet (I mean the Black leaders are under the feet of the Caucasian leaders). The wishes of the Caucasian leaders are the COMMAND of the Black “leaders.” We have many Caucasians here in Nigeria. They live as Kings and Queens, gets the Nigerian Visa at a blink of the eye! But for a Nigerian to get an American Visa, Canadian Visa, German, UK, Australian, Singaporean Visa it would take lot of protocols and waiting.
What themes in the book do you feel are universal, and which ones speak specifically to the Black experience in relation to social justice?
The theme of Racism, Slavery and Injustice being faced by the Blacks. It is so shameful, sad and disappointing that Black people all over the world are synonymous to racism and maltreatment. For example, when a Black American woman traveled to Barcelona Spain. As she was exchanging greetings with the Spanish woman the Spanish woman asked her where in Africa she was from and the Black American replied that she was American. You would not believe what the Spanish woman told her. I quote: “You are not American enough.” This was what the Spanish woman told her. That statement is very deep. It is a reminder to the Black American woman on her origin and root. It is also a reminder on how her forefathers were shipped from Africa in shackles and slaves to work in the plantations of United States of America. Akila Davis a Black American woman who works in the media in North Carolina has never been allowed to wear her original African dreadlocks because the White people did not see it as something beautiful. Only on the Juneteenth day was she able to have the freedom to wear her original African dreadlocks.
Something happened in a classroom in Illinois between a White teacher and her students. The White teacher was teaching and the students were making noise in the classroom; instead of calming the students she told the Black students that “they (the Black students) would have been her ‘Field Slaves’ if it wasn’t for the Constitution, they would be her slaves.”
In Kansas City, a Black American man Jon “Mike” Rone Jr. was stabbed to death by a White man whom he was engaged in an altercation. The police arrested the White man who killed the Black man on the reason that he (the White man) was disturbing the peace of the environment. Not that he killed a person. That clearly shows that the Black Lives Matter movement has not achieved its aim and the Black Lives has not mattered.
We have seen Black people in America face all kinds of killings and injustices. From Texas, Louisiana, Illinois, Oklahoma, Florida, Wisconsin Kansas, etc. unfortunately the Black people have not been able to rise above this maltreatment, stigma and label—both in Africa and outside Africa. If you notice the Asians in America do not live in the same reality as the Black Americans do because the Asians have unity, love and respect among themselves. The Asians knows their roots and as a matter of fact, the Asians were not brought into America as slaves.
Going back to Africa: South Africa is a country that is famous for Apartheid. A very terrible trend that has stuck with South Africans. Even if Nelson Mandela sacrificed his life for 27 years in prison fighting against apartheid—I am sad to say that Nelson Mandela did not win the battle to end Apartheid. One would think that a very visionary and luminary person as Nelson Mandela would be able to stop Apartheid in South Africa and give his Black people a total liberation but unfortunately that could not be possible as the White minority in South Africa are the ones who still drives the economy and are in control. South Africa enjoyed a little Golden Age during the reign of Nelson Mandela as president. There are places that are referred to as “Whites only” in South Africa. In 2016, a White South African woman Penny Sparrow labelled all the Black South Africans as monkeys.
If I tell you that South Africa was built by the Whites I am being honest because I talk with evidence not with emotions. Johannesburg, Witwatersrand, Waterfront, Pretoria, Cape Town, Pietermaritzburg, Transvaal, Durban East London, Port Elizabeth, King Williams Town, King James Town, Elandsfontein, Bloemfontein, Sun City, to mention but a few these are not African names. These are all beautiful places in South Africa built by the White people. I will not forget the beautiful Krugersdorp-Kruger National Park in South Africa. It was built by the Whites. Till today apartheid continues to exist in South Africa. For example, of recent, Black South Africans students are seen being auctioned off as slaves in a school in Cape Town, South Africa by their fellow White students.
The same thing has happened in Illinois, USA where a White teenage was auctioning his Black friend in craigslist as a slave. The White teenage posted a picture of his Black friend with the title “Slave for Sale.”
An American woman Elizabeth Billingsley said: “If we are White people, it is as a result of the choices made by our forefathers. If we are Black people, it is also a choice made by our forefathers.”
This picture was posted on Facebook by a Black American man from Louisiana USA. In the Facebook post he captioned it “The problem of Black people.” Do you understand what the illustration in this picture means?
To further explain what Elizabeth said; I will quote a Nigerian singer Cynthia Morgan
“Until Black Lives Matter to Blacks—Nobody Cares.”Cynthia Morgan
“It all goes back to when it all started. White people bought slaves from who? BLACK people, and who are these slaves? Black people. We sold ourselves out and lost our respect the day this trade took place. A White man cannot have respect for a race that sold their own race to other race not for marriage or better life but for slavery. White people being smart enough then they thought superior and gained it.
Have you ever thought it could have been the other way round? Like the Whites could have been in this position right now? But one race was just smarter at that point in time. Now our forefathers already made that mistake. Can we correct it? Yes. How? By gaining our respect and equality and its not by fighting these White people, its about knowing ourselves and finding our respect and in doing so, regrets and blames won’t help us.
White people have every right to be proud and do whatever pleases them. Its only natural, that’s how people act when they see all your comfort and life depends on them. What we are fighting is more than just color thing. It’s more of mentality problems. The only reason why white cops don’t and wouldn’t kill a white man is because they respect themselves and they know what they have put into building their nation. It’s hard before you see a white man pull a white man down intentionally.
You all can’t even come back to Africa because Africa is not ready for ya’ll. Most of you forgot your roots and stayed angry that they sold your forefathers out but somehow you still prefer it there in America. Black people might no longer be in chains of a white man physically but somehow they still are mentally. We need to build our own so we can earn our own respect back. Put some respect in you as a Black man, else we are always going to be 2nd choice.”
Can you share some of the challenges you faced in crafting a narrative around such a complex and emotionally charged topic?
I did not face any challenge because it is a reality happening to Black people all over the world and even here in Africa. The only thing was I had to make up my mind to write this book. It took discipline, courage, time and dedication.
What kind of research did you conduct, and were there any specific events or individuals that deeply shaped the story you told?
I conducted a very extensive and in-depth online research from actual life stories. I made sure that all information are from real people and real life experiences with no sugarcoating, assumptions and hypocrisy. That is why for every story or topic I mention or write about in this issue of Black Lives Matter; there is a source to that information as it is. Yes, the event of George Floyd and other events of the horrible and gory events that happened to Black people in Kansas City, North Carolina, Louisiana, etc and the reality we as Black people are experiencing back home in Africa were what shaped the story in this book. It was a lot of sacrifice! I had to painstakingly read through every actual life stories—accuracy and authenticity was my watchword before, during and after my writing this book on Black Lives Matter.
How do you hope your readers—especially those outside of the Black community—will respond to the message in your book?
The people who are outside of Black community find it difficult to relate to the reality of Black people. Because they do not live in the same reality that Black people are living in. The Forefathers of non-Black people were wise enough to not sell their own out to slavery. The forefathers of non-Black people have laid a very good foundation for their posterity. This is something that Black people have missed out on! Remember I mentioned what the Oklahoman woman (Elizabeth Billingsley) said. I am sure that non-Black people will understand the message in my book and respond to it positively because the message in my book carries TRUTH with it.
I have a deep compassion for Black Americans and Black people. For every Black person; there is inside trauma and negative patterns they are living with. This is something passed down from the Black ancestors. Only very few Black people have been to liberate themselves out of these negative patterns and invisible cords. I watched a Black American man saying “our brothers in Africa hate us so much that is why they sold us out into slavery.” That was during the killing of a Black man in Wisconsin USA.
Black Americans do not like associating with Africa because there is no good connection existing between them and Africa. It is not their fault that they are being treated the way are being treated today. It is a foundation the Black forefathers laid and it will require a miracle to break this (evil) chain and pattern. I encourage every Black person to always do a meditation and personal liberation from negative Ancestral patterns that have been following Black people. Whether you believe it or not, the things our forefathers have done affects us—until we awaken to a consciousness of it and breaks that covenant or the chain. It takes a LOT of spiritual muscles. That is why even in the Old Testament it was said the sins of the forefathers will continue to visit the children up to the third and fourth generations. This is what is affecting Black people.
Another part of the problem is that Black lives have not mattered to Blacks so you cannot expect other races to give you what your own kind are not giving to you. If the African Union (AU) knows what it is doing it would seek to pave way for the protection, liberation and betterment of the Black people. There is a lot of work to be done on the issue of Black people.
When Lazaris came to South Africa some years ago he tapped into the energy of the land and made a very profound observation about Africa. I will quote him: “Africa has a unique relationship with pain and suffering and this is evidenced by the genocide, starving and poverty in Africa. Africa needs healing. Africa also has a unique gift to heal the pain and suffering. It is in the form of a unique magic but it is lost in the land, in the minerals and in the animals that make up this land. It is hidden in the corruption, and in the pain and in the suffering in Africa.”
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Fame and Fortune comes with a lot of stress and inconveniences. It takes a lot of maturity, wisdom and spirituality to handle a Celebrity status and being a Public Figure. Many female artists in the Nigerian music industry have always been in one drama or the other. Only very few artists are able to maintain a clean reputation and live without drama. There is one artist who has caught my attention and her songs are topnotch too. This female Nigerian artist have really distinguished herself; suffice to say that she knows her onion. And she is honorarily known as the Queen of Afro-House; in my own perspective she truly deserves this title. You would ask: who is this artist? Her name is Niniola!
Niniola Biography
Niniola was born on born 15 December 1986 as Niniola Apata to the family of Rt. Brigadier General Simeon Olaosebikan Apata and Mrs. Margaret Apata in Lagos State. She is known professionally as Niniola, a singer and songwriter. Niniola is a Nigerian singer and sognwriter. She is the direct elder sister to Teni. Niniola began her journey to limelight after she participated in the sixth season of Project Fame West Africa in 2013. She released her debut single “Ibadi”, and was nominated for Most Promising Act to Watch at the 2015 Nigeria Entertainment Awards.
Education
Niniola began her education both primary and secondary school education at Apata Memorial High School, and she earned a bachelor of education certificate from the University of Lagos.[8] She comes from a polygamous family where she was the sixth of ten children, raised by three mothers and a father who was killed in 1995
MusicCareer
According to Niniola, her musical influences are: Dolly Parton, Whitney Houston, Celine Dion, The Cranberries, Madonna, Beyoncé and Angélique Kidjo. During an interview with Gbolahan Adeyemi of NGWide in 2015, Niniola expressed her fondness for singing in Yoruba, citing that it enhances the beauty of song delivery. As of 2018 Niniola’s style of music was described according to BET as “a mixture of afrobeats and house music.” Niniola released the Sarz-produced single “Maradona” in 2017. The song spent 13 weeks on South Africa’s Metro FM chart, retaining the number 1 position for 6 weeks. Niniola earned nominations at the 2018 BET Awards and SAMAs for “Maradona”. In 2018 DJ Snake teamed up with Niniola and created Maradona Riddim a remix to her previously released hit Maradona. She received nods from Canadian rapper Drake and American record producer Timbaland.
Some of the hit songs of Niniola which are actually my favorites are Designer and All Eyes on Me. These songs are truly a must watch and she displayed panache in the videos. Believe me, the video qualities of the videos are topnotch! I Another thing that makes me admire Niniola is the fact that she is able to sing in her mother tongue of Yoruba. Being able to sing in one’s mother tongue is another sign of being highly talented. I always enjoy playing Designer and All Eyes on Me on repeat. For example, in the song Designer; she said:
Awon kon like Gucci Awon kon like Fendi Awon kon like Seruti E mi o like ehh Awon kon like Gucci Awon kon like Ferrari Awon kon like Designer
Na the way you dey do me Na the wa you dey do me Boy I like the way you dey do me I Like the way
Laarun Laarun La shi shey laarun laarun Laarun Laarun La shi shey laarun laarun Laarun Laarun jaiye lo laarun laarun Laarun Laarun jaiye lo laarun laarun Let me kiss you kpa Wine your waist jukpa E mi man jerukpa Wine your waist jukpa If I am going to be honest with you; I would tell you that the lyrics of Designer by Niniola are enchanting and beautiful. The lyrics of All Eyes on Me are cool too. From the beat and rhythm of these In the song All Eyes on Me she said in part:
Ma kesekese wa sinu party yi now Ma kesekese wa sinu party yi now Tori boucner wa leyin ‘le kun wa ti ri
All eyes on me when I enter the party oh e All eyes on me when I enter the party e (All eyes on me) Ma kesekese wa sinu party yi now Mo ni ma rin gbere gbere wa sinu party yi now
Won gbe, wan gba Morire gba
On Being an Independent Artist
In a recent interview with TVC she explained why she has chosen to be a solo artist. According to Niniola she turned down offers from record labels to sign her because she is wary of the business side of music. According to her, various labels have approached her, but she chose to remain independent. She explained that being an independent artist gives her creative freedom.
“I have been an independent artist for 10 years. There are pros and cons of signing with a record label. I have seen the business side of doing music which a lot of people don’t see, they just focused only on making music.“Being an independent artist gives me the opportunity to also do what I want. I’m in charge of my creativity.A label wanted to sign me after my debut single but I was skeptical because I didn’t want anyone to switch my style. Because at that time, nobody was doing Afro-house. They can dictate what you do because they are the ones financing you.For me, creative freedom is one of the major pros of being an indie artist,” she said. Niniola also disclosed that she is an introvert but music brings out the extrovert in her.
For Niniola to be able to maintain her music career as a solo artist means that money is her servant. Trust me, she has had a very successful music career as she currently has over one million followers on Instagram. But above all, she has maintained a clean reputation devoid of drama like is common with many artists.
There are 2 connections we have with our Ancestors. This connections can be different for everyone depending on the family history, covenant and ancestral patterns that exists in that family. The first connection I will talk about is the connection to know your root. To know where you are from and know your culture; that is why every sane parents should make sure their children knows their roots. Knowing your root has its own level blessing, peace and freedom that comes with it. I have seen countless times where people who were born in faraway lands or live in faraway lands have to trace back their roots to connect with their ancestors just to feel the freedom, joy, peace and blessing that comes from knowing where you are. Connecting with your ancestors is not literally you going to the shrine to do libation and such. It is knowing who you and where you are from. This connection often involves getting to know your hometown, country, state and family members. The land which walk as your root gives you a level of freedom, inner peace and pride–in you knowing that THIS is where I am from.
The other “connection” to ancestor is the one of liberation. In this connection to your ancestors. Your aim is to visit your ancestors (energetically) to remove yourself from every karmic debt, covenant and negative patterns that have been existing in your family. This kind of patterns usually creates chaos, setbacks, misfortunes , evils and other kinds of negativity in the life of that person because you are still under the influence of the ancestral covenant of darkness. So the question is how do you connect with your ancestors? And how do you liberate yourself from ancestral negative covenant and patterns hampering your success? I will share with you a prayer for the ancestors written by Abby Wynne. Keep in mind that there are other ways you can explore….but I just loved this prayer from Abby Wynne; since I subscribe to her newsletter I was able to get this prayer from her newsletter and I thought I would share with us. I hope you find it helpful. But keep in mind that other extra works are required to back it up even as you pray to liberate yourself from the negative ancestral patterns that you may have been carrying unknowingly to you!
For the Ancestors
I call on my ancestors and say thank you for all you endured so that I could be here. I appreciate you. I break the chains you carried through the generations. It stops right here, with me. I know some of you don’t understand, some envy, some anger, but it is my time now. I release the bonds, chains, trauma, patterns and anything that is holding me back anything that held you back so that we can blossom. I know some of you celebrate with me, clap my successes, weep when I fall down…It is because of you I get back up again. It is because of you, I push through
We evolve and grow – each generation because of the works of the hands of the last generations. To my great, great, great, great, greats. I honour you. Each one of you, those that I knew and those of you that I will never know, To all of you. I know you in my heart. And you know me and together, unity.
May November bring abundance, uplifting opportunities, progress, higher vibrational lifestyle, constant Divinity, sweetness and joy