Welcome to ABUJA—the HEART of Nigeria!!

Abuja City Gate: Wikipedia

Abuja is the capital city of Nigeria. It is the capital and eighth most populous city of Nigeria. Situated at the centre of the country within the Federal Capital Territory (FCT). The Central Bank of Nigeria is located in Abuja.

Central Bank of Nigeria

I have been hearing about Lagos…but to be honest, Lagos has been overrated…the noise, overpopulation, pollution and other things. Abuja is serene and organized. At least in Abuja drivers will slow down for you to cross or signal you with their hands to cross. The zebra sign is respected in Abuja road networks. Where do you get that kind of pampering in Lagos—where everyone is always in a rush and hurry; with the endless go-slow. Hmmm…I wonder if I can actually stay in Lagos because that rush-rush helter-skelter lifestyle is never harmonious with me. That is not to say that I am not energetic. I am; but the ideal life is not the one you live under tension, rushing and hurrying. It was reported some time ago in Lagos how a man using the zebra crossing was almost crushed by a car!

Millennium Park: Abuja

Abuja is actually a beautiful place to be; another thing that makes me love Abuja is the breathtaking rocks, hills and mountains that grace it—adding beauty and magic to it. Beholding these mountains, rocks and hills could not have been more refreshing! Suffice to say that it is uplifting and quite refreshing! Personally, I love nature and I love spending time in nature too. Seeing these beautiful beings and wonders of creations also serve as a reason to think about life, appreciate life and the Grand Designer.

Jabi Lake, Abuja

I have been to this Millennium Park in an event with my comrades.

Me and my Comrade at the Millennium Park, Abuja

One lovely sunny morning, I went for a shopping in a supermarket. While I was minding my own business doing my shopping as a gentleman that I am; I heard a conversation between two friends sharing their experiences on their first day of visit to Abuja. It was actually a hilarious and dramatic one! I have a similar experience like theirs but not to the extent of how dramatic their own was—I can actually say with gratitude and joy that I did not have to be caught up in a maze of finding my way on my first day in Abuja. In fact, it was Divinely arranged and I will call it a “Cosmic Ride…”

Zuma Rock, Abuja

Here is the conversation that the two friends were discussing among themselves:

First Friend: I will never my first time to Abuja. The Abuja roads trend is very amusing and confusing. Because if you get car, you go lost, if you no get car, you go still lost.

Second Friend: You ask too much question you go lost more.

First Friend: Airport Road is Lugbe, Airport Junction is in Jabi by Life Camp, you get flight and you go stop for Airport junction, I laugh in Hebrew na GUO night bus you go enter las las.

Second Friend: You enter bus because you hear Galadima and na Galadimawa you dey go, my dear you haff lost

First Friend: You wan go buy something for Jahi and you land yourself for Jabi safe journey my dear

Second Friend: Them tell you say make you come Gwagwa, you begin go Gwagwalada, Adieu my dear

First Friend: You find yourself for Wuye and your interview nah for Wuse, my dear return to LinkedIn jobs and start applying again.

Second Friend: You dey go Idu magically find yourself for Iddo hope you haff strength

First Friend: You think Area 1 to Area 11 dey in order bah? You will trek. Zone 1 to Zone7? Better enter Bolt ooo

Second Friend: You dey go Apo dem carry you go Aco? Na tomorrow you go reach house

First Friend: You wan see craze, Assume that Wuse 2 and Wuse Zone 2 na the same place or Katampe in Mpape and Katampe in Kubwa express na same place…kikikikiki, I laugh in Hindu!! LMFAO!!!

Second Friend: City Gate na where Abuja start, the other places na FCT, don’t be deceived.

First Friend: There’s Berger in Berger and Berger in Lugbe.

Second Friend: There’s Police Signboard in Lugbe and Police Signboard in Dutse. Know there is Dutse in Wuse, and remember that Wuse and Wuye has no business.

First Friend: My dear, download Uber/Rida/Bolt.

Second Friend: You are driving and you miss a bridge, Hehehehehehe welcome to Nasarawa.

First Friend: You are driving and you take the wrong flyover, Niger State appreciates your presence my dear. The only thing that you can count on here is your Power bank and Airtime

First Friend & Second Friend: Welcome to ABUJA—the HEART of Nigeria!!

Serengeti Shall Not Die!

For many years back, I have been hearing about Serengeti. I only knew it was a National Park in Tanzania; but did not know much about it. It was not until recently that I read more about the Serengeti and guess what? I could not help but add it to my list of favorite travel destinations as I am an intrepid adventurer. In fact, the story surrounding Serengeti is truly heartwarming and epic. The question one would want to ask is: where did the word “Serengeti shall not die originate from”? Find out below:

“Serengeti shall not die” is a statement that reflects the importance of preserving the Serengeti ecosystem, which is a vast plain in East Africa spanning across Tanzania and Kenya. The Serengeti ecosystem is home to a diverse range of wildlife species, including lions, cheetahs, giraffes, zebras, wildebeests, and many more.

The statement “Serengeti shall not die” was made famous by the German documentary film of the same name, which was released in 1959. The film was directed by Bernhard Grzimek and his son Michael and documented their efforts to save the Serengeti from destruction.

Since then, the Serengeti ecosystem has faced several threats, including habitat loss, poaching, and climate change. However, concerted efforts by conservationists, governments, and local communities have helped to protect the ecosystem and its wildlife.

Today, the Serengeti National Park is one of the most popular tourist destinations in Africa and is recognized as a UNESCO World Heritage Site. It continues to inspire people around the world to work towards preserving the natural world and its many wonders.

Now, having read about the Serengeti National Park I have completely agreed with Grzimek: “Serengeti shall not die!”

The Lotus Flower Remains my Favorite Flower!

Magic Lotus flower

The lotus is born under the mud, growing through the water to achieve the surface, and therefore the air and the light of sun. This growth is identified with man’s life, born in earth but desiring the elevation to the air; representing his middle stage between animals and the ultimate reality. The seeds of lotus contain (even before they germinate) perfectly formed leaves, a miniature shape of what they would become. This flower is often present in Eastern Religions/Spirituality, which influence is key in the Theosophical Movement.

Lotus (Gr.). A most occult plant, sacred in Egypt, India and elsewhere; called “the child of the Universe bearing the likeness of its mother in its bosom”. There was a time “when the world was a golden lotus” (padma) says the allegory. A great variety of these plants, from the majestic Indian lotus, down to the marsh-lotus (bird’s foot trefoil) and the Grecian “Dioscoridis”, is eaten at Crete and other islands. It is a species of nymphala, first introduced from India to Egypt to which it was-not indigenous. See the text of Archaic Symbolism in the Appendix Viii. “The Lotus, as a Universal Symbol” (Wikipedia)

The Secret Meaning of the Lotus Flower

Lotus Flower: Pexel Photos

Nothing is more spiritual than the lotus—it experiences Immaculate Conception every single day.

At first glance, one might not think much of the lotus flower. The plant’s symmetry and colors are striking, sure, but beneath the lotus’s delicate exterior lies a deeper meaning nearly as old as time. The flower holds great symbolic weight in many Eastern cultures and is considered one of the most sacred plants in the world. So, what is it about this specific bloom that makes it oh so special?

To start, the lotus has a life cycle unlike any other plant. With its roots latched in mud, it submerges every night into river water and miraculously re-blooms the next morning, sparklingly clean. In many cultures, this process associates the flower with rebirth and spiritual enlightenment. With its daily process of life, death, and reemergence, its no wonder that the lotus holds such symbolism.

Because of these meanings, the lotus is often seen alongside divine figures in some cultures. For the Egyptians, the flower represents the universe. In Hindu culture, it is said that gods and goddesses sat on lotus thrones. And a longstanding Buddhist story states that the Buddha appeared atop a floating lotus, and his first footsteps on Earth left lotus blossoms.

As divine as the Gods, the flower of rebirth was thought to contain magical properties as well. The ancient Egyptians believed lotuses had the ability to resurrect the deceased, as seen in Book of the Dead transformation spells.

Each flower color also has its own symbolism. For Buddhist practitioners, a white lotus symbolizes purity, whereas a yellow lotus is associated with spiritual ascension. However, the real question remains: how has the flower acquired such all-encompassing spiritual significance?

The lotus flower’s daily resurrection is certainly interesting, and surely symbolic of revival. (This makes it the perfect gift for anyone recovering from injury or a traumatic experience.) But the flower also has a fascinating will to live. A lotus seed can withstand thousands of years without water, able to germinate over two centuries later.

The flower also blooms in the most unlikely of places such as the mud of murky river water in Australia or Southern Asia. Not only does it find sanctuary in the muck, but due to the waxy protection layer on its petals, its beauty is blithely unaffected when it re-blooms each morning. It continues to resurrect itself, coming back just as beautiful as it was last seen. With such refusal to accept defeat, it’s almost impossible not to associate this flower with unwavering faith. Although cultures have largely dubbed the lotus as a spiritual figurehead, it is most emblematic of the faith within ourselves. It is particularly what the Buddhist proverb, aims to edify; living life with unwavering faith, as the lotus does, ensures the most beautiful revivals. (Katie Robbins of Town and Country).

Why I Don’t Care Much About Valentine’s Day-Moxie’s Diary

Today is Valentine’s Day and I wanted to share this with you. Honestly, I am surprised to read that a woman in this our modern generation. A generation that has been blown away by social media, fashion and whatever you can call it still have some people who are distinct! In fact, I should not have to waste any further time. Read for yourself to find out a different view and opinion of Moxie from her won diary (Moxie’s Diary).

Yesterday, my man knowing how much I like important dates, asked me, “babe, is Valentine’s Day very important to you?”, I said not really because I feel like people make a huge fuss about it; but I may appreciate a gift, and get you one too.

Thinking about it, why do we have to pick one day just to celebrate our lover. Is it like we don’t get them gifts every other day?

I mean that has always been my opinion about Val’s day since I “grew up”!

I take celebration of anniversaries more important than Val’s day.

And the competition of whose partner did the most — and some who go as far as lying that they were gifted when they weren’t. Why the pressure?

Photo: Google Images/Moxie’s Diary

It’s been so many stories about the origin of Valentine’s Day; but the most popular, is that it originated as a Christian feast day honoring one or two early Christian martyrs named Saint Valentine and, through later folk traditions, has become a significant cultural, religious, and commercial celebration of romance and love in many regions of the world, according to Wikipedia.

The major reason I stopped caring about Valentine’s Day is because of how people started judging the love their partner has for them on that day! It’s just so many expectations; and people get pressured from what others display online, and feel left out!

Valentine Picture: Google Images

If all you get on Valentine’s Day is a love note written from the heart, it’s enough! There’s no rule that says your partner has to go out of their way to impress you so that you can post on social media!

I’m not sure I’ll take my man seriously if he only gifts me on Valentine’s Day! This is not to discourage anyone planning to get gifts for their partners — please go on! My point is, as tomorrow comes, express love the best way you can but do not pressure nor force anyone into doing what they don’t want to do. That’s not love!

People on social media don’t care! They’ll go about their business the next day, and forget about you, or what was given to you, or the gifts you faked, and posted!

While we show love to our partners, let’s also show love to everyone else who can’t afford anything, and our families who are struggling — because charity begins at home!

Happy Valentine’s Day, guys

Source: Moxie’s Diary Facebook Page

Welcome to ABUJA—the HEART of Nigeria!!

If I have to do it again, I will still choose Abuja. I have been hearing about Lagos…but to be honest, Lagos has been overrated…the noise, overpopulation, pollution and other things. Abuja is serene and organized. At least in Abuja drivers will slow down for you to cross or signal you with their hands to cross. The zebra sign is respected in Abuja road networks. Where do you get that kind of pampering in Lagos—where everyone is always in a rush and hurry; with the endless go-slow. Hmmm…I wonder if I can actually stay in Lagos because that rush-rush helter-skelter lifestyle is never harmonious with me. That is not to say that I am not energetic. I am; but the ideal life is not the one you live under tension, rushing and hurrying. It was reported some time ago in Lagos how a man using the zebra crossing was almost crushed by a car!

Abuja is actually a beautiful place to be; another thing that makes me love Abuja is the breathtaking rocks, hills and mountains that grace it—adding beauty and magic to it. Beholding these mountains, rocks and hills could not have been more refreshing! Suffice to say that it is uplifting and quite refreshing! Personally, I love nature and I love spending time in nature too. Seeing these beautiful beings and wonders of creations also serve as a reason to think about life, appreciate life and the Grand Designer.

Aso Rock as seen from the IBB golf course in Abuja, Nigeria.
Aso Rock as seen from the IBB golf course in Abuja, Nigeria.

One lovely sunny morning, I went for a shopping in a supermarket. While I was minding my own business doing my shopping as a gentleman that I am; I heard a conversation between two friends sharing their experiences on their first day of visit to Abuja. It was actually a hilarious and dramatic one! I have a similar experience like theirs but not to the extent of how dramatic their own was—I can actually say with gratitude and joy that I did not have to be caught up in a maze of finding my way on my first day in Abuja. In fact, it was Divinely arranged and I will call it a “Cosmic Ride…”

Here is the conversation that the two friends were discussing among themselves:

First Friend: I will never my first time to Abuja. The Abuja roads trend is very amusing and confusing. Because if you get car, you go lost, if you no get car, you go still lost.

Second Friend: You ask too much question you go lost more.

First Friend: Airport Road is Lugbe, Airport Junction is in Jabi by Life Camp, you get flight and you go stop for Airport junction, I laugh in Hebrew na GUO night bus you go enter las las.

Second Friend: You enter bus because you hear Galadima and na Galadimawa you dey go, my dear you haff lost

First Friend: You wan go buy something for Jahi and you land yourself for Jabi safe journey my dear

Second Friend: Them tell you say make you come Gwagwa, you begin go Gwagwalada, Adieu my dear

First Friend: You find yourself for Wuye and your interview nah for Wuse, my dear return to LinkedIn jobs and start applying again.

Second Friend: You dey go Idu magically find yourself for Iddo hope you haff strength

First Friend: You think Area 1 to Area 11 dey in order bah? You will trek. Zone 1 to Zone7? Better enter Bolt ooo

Second Friend: You dey go Apo dem carry you go Aco? Na tomorrow you go reach house

First Friend: You wan see craze, Assume that Wuse 2 and Wuse Zone 2 na the same place or Katampe in Mpape and Katampe in Kubwa express na same place…kikikikiki, I laugh in Hindu!! LMFAO!!!

Second Friend: City Gate na where Abuja start, the other places na FCT, don’t be deceived.

First Friend: There’s Berger in Berger and Berger in Lugbe.

Second Friend: There’s Police Signboard in Lugbe and Police Signboard in Dutse. Know there is Dutse in Wuse, and remember that Wuse and Wuye has no business.

First Friend: My dear, download Uber/Rida/Bolt.

Second Friend: You are driving and you miss a bridge, Hehehehehehe welcome to Nasarawa.

First Friend: You are driving and you take the wrong flyover, Niger State appreciates your presence my dear. The only thing that you can count on here is your Power bank and Airtime

First Friend & Second Friend: Welcome to ABUJA—the HEART of Nigeria!!

Abuja City Entrance Gate: Google Images, Aso Rock Images: Google images, Mpape Hills: Google Images

An Interview with Richard Coleman

Richard Coleman

Hello everyone! Today, I have the pleasure of interviewing this amazing, talented, creative and brilliant Ghanaian man (Richard Coleman), It is very obvious that Richard knows his onions and is well on track in a very positive momentum. I actually felt inspired by his words. But before I share with you what Richard said in his interviews; let me share with you what Bob Marley’s wife said (the reason I am sharing Bob Marley’s wife statement is that it is connected to what Richard said too).

Bob Marley’s wife made a comment about Nigeria on why she chose to stay in Ghana instead of Nigeria and she said that Nigeria is like New York and that in Ghana things are in gradual process. Similarly, this amazing Ghanaian man made that comment too. Thank you Richard for letting me have this interview with you; I consider it an honor and a privilege. So, without further here is my interview with Richard Coleman:

What is your name?

Richard Coleman

I am from the Central region of Ghana, specifically Saltpond. I do miss Ghana and of course I can speak at least eight different Ghanaian languages

You told me you are from Ghana. Where in Ghana are you from? Do you miss Ghana? Can you speak your Ghanaian language?

Greet the world with your language and put the interpretation

Mekyia mo nyinna mokai nhomaa yi (I greet all readers of this blog)

How long have you been in Nigeria?

Nine years

Have you ever wished or do you sometimes wish or feel like going back to Ghana? Do you have this nostalgia for Ghana?

Not particularly, I can visit Ghana anytime I want to. As a matter of fact I visited Ghana July last year. I’m always welcome anytime I visit

What is your own comparison between Nigeria and Ghana?

Lifestyle in Ghana is slow paced (gradual process) but Nigeria is on a fast pace in all aspects

Do you have a Ghanaian name and what is the meaning of the name?

Yes my Ghanaian name is Yaw which is a Thursday born but I am fondly call Paa Ekow

How long have you been on this planet Earth?

I have been on this earth for twenty seven years

What is your profession/career? What can you say inspired you to go into this profession/career?

I am into business management and development in the Tech and Communications space. The reason why I ventured into this career path is because I natural have a flair for leading people and making them get the best results as possible, also my love for technology and interacting with people.

Assuming you had another chance to pick a different career; will you still be doing this profession/career?

Nope if I had my way I will be a Music Artist

What stopped you from having your way in becoming a music artist?

Nothing stopped me the dream still lives on but a priority check has been implemented.

What are your Passions? What inspires you?

I am passionate about self improvement, music, inter personal relationship and doing great things against all odds

If you are to have an all expense paid trip to any country in the world; where will that be?

The United Kingdom

Where and where would you visit in UK and what attracted you to the UK?

Milton Keynes. The easy going setting attracted me and of course the rich royal history

Do you have any favorite food?

Jollof rice and chicken with plantain

How will you describe your hobbies?

My hobbies include singing, listening to music, playing video games and talking

Do you have role models/influences and who are they?

I won’t say I have one specific mentor per say, I have role models across different areas of life whom I emulate such as Miles Munroe, Robert Kiyosaki, Apostle Joshua Selman, Bishop Oyedepo,  TD Jakes to mention a few

What is your life orientation?

Everything happens for a reason, nothing happens by chance

Do you have any phobia(s)?

None that I can recall

What are your strengths? Or what can you specifically pick out as your super power?

I am a very observant person (Observant)

You are given an opportunity to have lunch with one of the luminaries in the world; who would that be?

Robert Kiyosaki

Looking back in your life, will you beat your hands in the chest and say yes, I have achieved my dreams?

Sadly no, even though I have some little accomplishments, i still have room for more improvement

Is there anything you sometimes wished you had not done; I mean do you have one of those coulda, woulda, shoulda?

Not exactly. Everything I did I knew the implications

Do you have any childhood memories you would want to share with us?

Growing up as a kid I was so close to my mother and she was my best friend. I always cherish those fond times were I would tag along with her wherever she went to and also spending time in the kitchen with her or baking with her cause she loved to bake

Where do you see yourself in 5-10 years time from now?

In the next 5-10 years I see myself touring the world and meeting with dignitaries; having created a stable income with a wonderful family with my kids around me. Having a strong business empire as well

What advise do you have for our young ones?

Just remain focused and don’t be afraid to make mistakes or fail. Because from those mistakes and failures your will come out refined

What are some of the books you have read and why did you choose to read them?

I am not a book worm per say. I read books based on my desire to gain knowledge at a particular point

Do you love animals and bird? Do you have any pet? Tell us about it

I grew up with dogs in my house and I love them. As they say, they are man’s best friend

What can you categorize as your likes and dislikes?

I like fun and cheerful setting, interaction. My dislikes would be being lied to, cheated, being patronized and being accused wrongly

How can people connect with you on social media; would you like to share your social media handles?

Facebook: RichieremyNg

Instagram: @ richieremy_ng

Twitter :     @richieremy_Ng1

Snapchat:   RichieremyNg

Christmas in Abuja

Abuja: google Images
Father Christmas Google Images

I woke up at 12:07am and I checked my calendar it was 25th December; Christmas Day! In that very early hour of the morning, everywhere was bubbling with music and noises. I was still on my bed and I could hear all those noises from far and near. My neighbours were already awake preparing meal for the Christmas day.

Christmas is celebrated all over the world. If you ask me, I will tell you that Christmas has been overrated! Many people still have the absurd belief that Christmas is a time to show love. That does not make sense at all! The other majority are of the opinion that Christmas is the celebration of Jesus Christ. What I think about Christmas is, instead of waiting till the end of the year to start remembering the birth of Jesus, why not you let your life reflect the qualities of Jesus Christ everyday of your life? There are people who only give on Christmas day. After Christmas they do not care about giving and sharing.

Picture: WhatsApp images

My Christmas day in Abuja was a very busy one! Lol…it was just as normal as every other day of my life. I went to an event in the morning and came back in the afternoon tired. As soon as I got home in the afternoon I slept off and woke by 5pm. It was actually a cool beautiful and peaceful day for me. If people can put this same zeal they put in Christmas period to live with one another and achieve their dreams I believe the world will be a better place and humanity will find peace.

I wish everyone a very merry abundant Christmas and super prosperous New Year!

Wise Living

Confucius quote/image: Facebook

There is a statement Jesus Christ made in the Bible—and he said “Be gentle as a dove but be wise a serpent.” It is not enough to be alive in my own opinion though. Living well is the best way to live. There are many people who are out there but their life is not something worthy of emulation…hence the title of this post.

What is wise living? What does the word wise itself mean? Well, I do not want to go into describing and explaining what the word wise means. Everyone knows what it means to be wise. The three men that visited baby Jesus in the manger were referred to as the Wisemen; for me I think they are described as Wisemen because they knew what to do at the right time and given their awakened personality and higher consciousness they have.

Source: Facebook

The only little explanation I will give about being wise is, knowing who you are as a Divine Being with Divine Rights. Once you are aware of your Divineness and connection with the Universe/God/Angels/Cosmic Forces then you will begin to live wisely. That is wise living. Living wisely is living life authentically as child of God. When you hear the word child of God please understand that it is NOT about going to church—being a child of God means living a life of dominion, abundance, victory, wisdom, light, love, selflessness, altruism and compassion.

One who is living wisely does not follow the noise of this 3D (three dimensional reality). A person who is living wisely does not put their trust in the government. Living wisely is living in constant divinity and higher consciousness—which also includes forming a deep personal connection with God and the Angels; as the magical Debbianne DeRose rightly said “get into cahoots with your higher self.”

Source: Facebook

Another aspect of living wisely is living an egoless life. I totally understand the fact everyone has the ego in them including me and the ego cannot be killed. Even if the ego cannot be killed we can at least put it in the rear, paralyze it and dethrone it because when you are living from the ego you will never win! Unfortunately, many people are living from their ego and it is certainly not a wise living.

One can begin the process of wise living by:

Being mindful of the friends you keep. Love yourself enough to avoid hypocritical, jealous, egocentric friends/people. Although you cannot avoid these kind of people completely because they are there in your workplace, family, school, neighbourhoods and wherever human beings are found. But you can build up energetic boundaries between you and them so that you cannot absorb their negative energy; instead you just observe it!

Gratitude. A grateful mind is a magnet for miracles. No matter what someone does for you; be humble and wise enough to say thank you. Even if your situation does not seem as rosy as you desired it to be, still give gratitude to God for the unseen miracles running towards you.

Spend time in nature. I am a person who loves spending time in nature as it is a very ample way of raising our vibration and keeping ourselves in a positive momentum. You can have a quality time in the beach, wood, forest, river, garden, mountains, rocks, etc

Source: Facebook

Eating wisely. You are what you eat; foods have vibrations of their own and they have their own consciousness they carry. For optimal health and wellbeing; it is good for you to eat organic food

Exercise. It is not every time you drive or be in the park. Sometimes you can decide to take a walk as a way of breathing in the fresh air of nature. Depending on your financial capacity you can decide to enroll in a gym to keep fit as it enhances personal development and wellness too.

Read Inspiring Books and Success Stories. There are many books with life hacks that will teach you Universal Laws and how to create your own reality. “It behooves you to learn, relearn and unlearn. Remember, a mind that is stretched by new knowledge can never go back to its prior form.”

Constant Divinity. Always remember that you are a magical divine being with divine rights to command the cosmic forces to do your bidding. Arm yourself with the knowledge of being a divine being and seek to live from a higher consciousness.

Here is what Abby Wynne has to say “the quality of your life is what you experience through the choices you make and the consequences of those choices. You are the only one who can change the quality of your life.”

A Poem

When I read this poem on my friend’s page on Facebook it touched and inspired me hence I decided to share with you. Hope you enjoy it (Merry Christmas and a Super Prosperous New Year!)

Patience visited me

And it reminded me

That good things take time to come to fruition

And grow slowly with stability

Peace visited me

And it reminded me

That I may remain calm through the storms of life

Regardless of the chaos surrounding me

Hope visited me

And it reminded me

That better times lay ahead

And it would always be there to guide and uplift me

Humility visited me

And it reminded me

That I may achieve it

Not by trying to shrink myself and make myself less

But by focusing on serving the world and uplifting those around me

Kindness visited me

And it reminded me

To be more gentle, forgiving and compassionate toward myself

And those surrounding me

Confidence visited me

And it reminded me

To not conceal or suppress my gifts and talents

In order to make others feel more comfortable

But to embrace what makes me me

Focus visited me

And it reminded me

That other people’s insecurities and judgements about me

Are not my problem

And I should redirect my attention

From others back to me

Freedom visited me

And it reminded me

That no one has control over my mindset, thoughts and wellbeing

But me

And love visited me

And it reminded me

That I need not search for it in others

As it lies within me.

Words by Tahlia Hunter

Marginalization in Nigeria

Since the amalgamation of Nigeria in 1914 there has been the issue of marginalization. In fact, marginalization has eaten deep into every aspect of Nigeria’s economy!! I was honourably invited by journalist Pius Awunah to talk about the issue of marginalization in Nigeria which have been bedeviling Nigeria since inception in KAFTAN TV Station Abuja.

I am really happy to be able to participate in this Talkshow Program hosted by Pius Awunah on KAFTAN TV. It was really an interesting topic to talk about as Pius and I uncovered many issues and factors behind the issue of marginalization. Without further ado, here is the YouTube link to watch the talkshow. Feel free to leave your comment, like, share. You can also write me your opinion and feedbacks. I am sure you are going to enjoy watching this Talkshow and not only that you will surely learn something from it.